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    I don't like/want to give or recieve oral sex but is this a problem in most relationships? I'm not that keen on kissing but I will do it if the person in the relationship likes it. I suppose I just don't get the whole mouth thing lol. I've nothing against oral it's just it does nothing for me and I suppose I dislike it. Is there only me like this? I suppose I enjoy things that people see as boring such as massage but just wanted opinions/advice.
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    Maybe it's the people you've been with so far. You're bound to find someone that you enjoy these things with. Or maybe you're asexual...
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    I don't like/want to give or recieve oral sex but is this a problem in most relationships? I'm not that keen on kissing but I will do it if the person in the relationship likes it. I suppose I just don't get the whole mouth thing lol. I've nothing against oral it's just it does nothing for me and I suppose I dislike it. Is there only me like this? I suppose I enjoy things that people see as boring such as massage but just wanted opinions/advice.
    Considering how many people are in the world, it's unlikely you're the only one like this. You just have to find someone you're compatible with.
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    I'm the same way. I don't think it's abnormal, but it's definitely going to get a few eyebrow raises from a lot of people. Oral sex is very common and almost expected. But you don't have to participate in anything you're not comfortable with. If you don't mind doing it/are indifferent to it and are with a partner, I'm sure you can find a compromise that can please both parties. Or he/she will have to be understanding.

    I don't think it'd be a big deal-breaker if the person wants more than just sex from the relationship, and I don't think it's weird either way. Everyone has things they're into and dislike. Yours just happens to be something popular. Like you said, there's other things you enjoy doing. As for asexuality, that might be something to look into if you think it has to do with lack of sexual attraction.
 
 
 
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