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How do you accept that you shall be a spinster? watch

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    I am a 20 year old, unattractive female who has only ever dated one person (and that went down in flames)

    I have concluded I shall be a spinster. I have been bullied my whole life, there is clearly something fundemebtally wrong with both my physical appearance and personality

    I dont WANT to be a spinster, id love nothing more than to be married and lead a normal life but for me this simply will not be the case

    All of my friends will definitely get married, my single friends are all very attractive and single out of choice whilst my less attractive friends seem to be in settled relationships

    I am studying for a law degree and hoping to become a lawyer or have some form of career at least but I really hate being single NOW so how will I cope at 30 when being single is going to isolate me completely?
    I cry everyday
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    You'll definitely find someone who likes you. It's not all about the looks, it's about personality also, but you said yours is bad. What exactly is it about your personality that is bad?

    What even constitutes 'normal' !? Single at 30'...so what ? Not everyone moves at the same pace , you'll have all your **** together by 30 , a good career ect ! Focus on the positives and try to stop comparing yourself to others. A relationship isn't the be all and end all , try and channel your energy into something positive like uni instead of focussing too much on what u don't have .... focus on what you do!!!

    Plus you're 20'for Christ sake , you've got another 60 years at least (!!!) . Don't write yourself off just yet x

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