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    Why do I still think about him? So many things remind me of them. :/

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    Because you're not over it, have you found a distraction? It's hard, believe me.
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
    Because you're not over it, have you found a distraction? It's hard, believe me.
    im fitter, think about me
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    Because you're not over it, have you found a distraction? It's hard, believe me.

    No. He was the first guy I really liked. I blocked him on everything.
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    He was a **** to my friends. :/

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    No. He was the first guy I really liked. I blocked him on everything.
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    He was a **** to my friends. :/


    Do you ever feel tempted to unblock? I've done that a few times, even tried the whole 'let's be friends' and it never works.
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    (Original post by KyleH123)
    im fitter, think about me
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
    Do you ever feel tempted to unblock? I've done that a few times, even tried the whole 'let's be friends' and it never works.
    Nope. I'd feel really guilty if I did because he said something really bad to one of my friends. He message me after we broke up but I blocked him.
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    (Original post by saraxh)
    Nope. I'd feel really guilty if I did because he said something really bad to one of my friends. He message me after we broke up but I blocked him.
    After the break up, did you try to get on and do the things you liked? I tried new things, I think what worked for me was writing my feelings down and thinking I could do better.
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    After the break up, did you try to get on and do the things you liked? I tried new things, I think what worked for me was writing my feelings down and thinking I could do better.
    Yeah. I've moved on but for some reason when listen to a certain song it reminds me of them.
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    (Original post by saraxh)
    Yeah. I've moved on but for some reason when listen to a certain song it reminds me of them.
    I get like this, it's a normal reaction, whilst you're still single, you'll always think about your ex in some sort of way tbh.
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    I'm sure I can take your mind offa him

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    Just get rid of everything and anything that ties him to you, and the feeling'll fade. Give it some time, things like that are a pain in the as$, but you will get over it if you stay distracted and have willpower. Once you realise that you're doing this for you- it'll get easy.
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
    I get like this, it's a normal reaction, whilst you're still single, you'll always think about your ex in some sort of way tbh.
    I'm so done with him.
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    I'm sure I can take your mind offa him

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    Just get rid of everything and anything that ties him to you, and the feeling'll fade. Give it some time, things like that are a pain in the as$, but you will get over it if you stay distracted and have willpower. Once you realise that you're doing this for you- it'll get easy.

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    Thanks I literally still have a shirt that reminds me of them. I've been way too lazy to throw it out
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    Time my friend. It might take months, even years, but you will get over him, eventually...
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    I've had a whole year after a relationship and I think I'm finally over her and it feels freaking amazing to not care about someone who you cared about so much. At the end of the day you just gotta tell yourself... you can do better.
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    Thanks I literally still have a shirt that reminds me of them. I've been way too lazy to throw it out

    Lazy my booty- chuck it out at once!
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    Don't make me be the salty friend that gives you the Judgmental Stare™. Do it.
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    Why do I still think about him? So many things remind me of them. :/




    You are an odd creature.
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    (Original post by S2M)
    You are an odd creature.
    How?
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    (Original post by Someboady)
    I've had a whole year after a relationship and I think I'm finally over her and it feels freaking amazing to not care about someone who you cared about so much. At the end of the day you just gotta tell yourself... you can do better.
    So true
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    You're a kid and he was the "first guy you really liked". So naturally it will take you time to get over him, but in the long run it will make you stronger and it's a part of growing up. (As much as it sucks)
 
 
 
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