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    I went to a girls school too. I started to like a guy in college, and he seemed to like me at first because I was more quiet than the other girls in our class. But after weeks.... and then months..... of not being able to hold up a conversation....... the shyness wasn't cute anymore and I seemed to be giving off weirdo vibes and he went off me.
    (3 years later and I still have anxiety just speaking to the postman)
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    I'm very shy myself but sometimes boys like that
    Trust me
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    (Original post by Zahrah12)
    I'm very shy myself but sometimes boys like that
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    Trust you. As a guy such girls arouse my interest, they make me curious. As if they have a secret in theirselves.
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    Shyness can bring a bit of mystery and intrigue and interest in getting to know someone better as long as it doesn't come across as unfriendliness.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Do guys ever find shy girls attractive?
    I'm a shy guy, so yes, I like shy girls. Just as long as they aren't shy because they're depressed/insecure. Insecure people irritate the hell out of me. Having baggage and having to solve other people's problems isn't sexy, it's pathetic.

    Not saying being shy is sign of being insecure, but sometimes it is. There are plenty of insecure people with big mouths as well. Being secure is more important than how loud/shy they are.
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Shyness can bring a bit of mystery and intrigue and interest in getting to know someone better as long as it doesn't come across as unfriendliness.
    Finally I have found a member who shares my opinions on shyness. Shyness can really be intriguing, agree. Well, well.
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      (Original post by hezzlington)
      Shyness could indicate a lack of confidence. A lack of confidence is not attractive.
      Its not unattractive either. You dont even need confidence if your sexy.
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      I keep telling you if shes attractive, she will be found attractive

      her personality or character traits have nothing to do with attraction levels
     
     
     
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