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    Okay sounds stupid but I'm bi and have been officially out now for months, but despite lads finding it 'sexy' or whatever, I've never had any luck with girls... is it just me?
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    (Original post by rach.cov)
    Okay sounds stupid but I'm bi and have been officially out now for months, but despite lads finding it 'sexy' or whatever, I've never had any luck with girls... is it just me?
    Perhaps Rhythmical is someone who can relate to this

    There's no guarantee that you'll meet nice people but maybe LGBT events in your area or online dating might be worth a shot?
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    (Original post by rach.cov)
    Okay sounds stupid but I'm bi and have been officially out now for months, but despite lads finding it 'sexy' or whatever, I've never had any luck with girls... is it just me?
    It's not you, most bi people struggle with dating someone of the same sex as people think it's just a phase. I'm bi and I struggle with girls, I tend to fall for straight girls. My advice for you is to meet new people at a gay bar or maybe at university or work, LGBT societies are all over, might also be worth looking at social media too.

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    Perhaps Rhythmical is someone who can relate to this

    There's no guarantee that you'll meet nice people but maybe LGBT events in your area or online dating might be worth a shot?
    Thanks Sean
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    It is usually said that once you're officially out, the lesbians/bi girls will find you. Maybe you just don't hang around in those circles.

    Have you actually made any moves on girls and been rejected or is it case of there not being any girls around where you are?
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    I realised I was bi about 7 months ago and still trying
    Apparently I give off a "straight vibe" so probably just need to put myself out there and make the first move but its so much harder when you have to work out if someone's even into women first.

    Are you meeting gay/bi women and not getting anywhere or just struggling to meet them in general?
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    (Original post by RainMakesWhisky)
    I realised I was bi about 7 months ago and still trying
    Apparently I give off a "straight vibe" so probably just need to put myself out there and make the first move but its so much harder when you have to work out if someone's even into women first.

    Are you meeting gay/bi women and not getting anywhere or just struggling to meet them in general?
    Well, the one's I have spoken to and met up with always seem to go for girls a lot more 'butch' than me
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    (Original post by Skkc16)
    It is usually said that once you're officially out, the lesbians/bi girls will find you. Maybe you just don't hang around in those circles.

    Have you actually made any moves on girls and been rejected or is it case of there not being any girls around where you are?
    There are not many girls around me...
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      (Original post by rach.cov)
      Okay sounds stupid but I'm bi and have been officially out now for months, but despite lads finding it 'sexy' or whatever, I've never had any luck with girls... is it just me?
      Have you tried approaching girls? Simply announcing your availability isn't going to make women suddenly interested.
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      Hi there,

      I'm an Accounting and Business Studies tutor, and while I encourage my students to be themselves, I have to advise you to be extremely careful when trying to find a romantic relationship online, as most people are here just to spend their time while being bored, or use a fake alias to further their own "needs"

      Good luck, and hope you find a nice person you can call girlfriend though
     
     
     
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