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      (Original post by Friar Chris)
      It's all fun and games until I find a breast lump :pierre:
      Better find it sooner than later :fyi:
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      I don't think there's anything wrong with being an immigrant? Where are you from?
      Agreed. Jesus Christ, what is up with people putting being an immigrant or from another country as a con as if TSR is full of British supremacists?

      Also, I heard you are a Southeastern Asian man, so...

      Say, boy, let's not talk too much
      Grab on my waist and put that body on me
      Come on now, follow my lead
      Come, come on now, follow my lead

      :rofl:
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      (Original post by littlenorthernlass)
      Better find it sooner than later :fyi:
      :rolleyes: Not sure it's quite as sexy as you imagine
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      (Original post by hezzlington)
      Pros:

      I will cook for you, look after you emotionally and physically and **** you properly
      I know when to take the lead and when to be a little bit more laid back
      Loyalty to my woman is my strongest trait. I won't be remotely interested in other women.
      We will go on exciting holidays, travel the world and do it in style. (Free business class tickets, anyone?)
      We will wine and dine

      Cons:

      I have insomnia, lol have fun with that
      You will never, ever win an arguement with me. Ever.
      I won't skip gym for you.
      I won't watch your crappy films or listen to your **** music, sorry .
      I'm stubborn, as you can tell.
      I'm very tactile, so if you're not really into PDA then, well...sucks to be you.
      I'm not massively romantic. I'll buy you nice gifts and display nice gestures, but there probably won't be any nice words to go along with it. Thoughts there though, don't worry.
      I probably won't tell you 'I love you' for a very, very long time. So if you say it to me after sex after like, 4 months of being together I will laugh at you and not say it back.
      For some, your last con may actually be a pro. Maybe it's just me, but who can even say they love someone just four months into a relationship? Also, actions speak louder than words anyway.

      (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
      Pros: I'd say I'm not a bad person, and I haven't got a nasty case of 'princess syndrome'.

      Cons: I can be really snarky and sarcastic, if I feel that I've been wronged in some way.
      Same.
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      (Original post by cupcakes87)
      pros: im amazing

      cons: i can be a very moody cow which means i can be very not amazing

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      :love:

      Pros: I'm a conversationalist

      Cons: I chat so much s*** :rofl:
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        (Original post by Friar Chris)
        :rolleyes: Not sure it's quite as sexy as you imagine
        I'm not sure anyone finds finding a lump sexy ":rolleyes:"
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        (Original post by Michiyo)
        Agreed. Jesus Christ, what is up with people putting being an immigrant or from another country as a con as if TSR is full of British supremacists?

        Also, I heard you are a Southeastern Asian man, so...

        Say, boy, let's not talk too much
        Grab on my waist and put that body on me
        Come on now, follow my lead
        Come, come on now, follow my lead

        :rofl:
        TSR is full of supremacists tbh :rofl: Or just the keyboard warriors :lol:

        Well hey there, let's go somewhere more private :mmm:
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        (Original post by alishba-rosex)
        pros: I'm cute
        I love being cuddled and will kiss u 24/7
        I can bake lol
        I'll love you every min so you don't need to worry about no other guy lool bc on weekends I'll be sat at home waiting 4 u or studying
        I actually text back quickly
        I'm a kind and caring person

        cons:
        I'm quite sensitive
        sometimes have mood swings
        i'll miss you too much
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        I'm sold on you from the pros

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        (Original post by UWS)
        TSR is full of supremacists tbh :rofl: Or just the keyboard warriors :lol:

        Well hey there, let's go somewhere more private :mmm:
        Who cares :lol: No one should consider their nationality and ethnic background a con of dating them, no matter what supremacists say

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        JK sorry my beloved wife does not deserve to be cheated on :love:

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        On a serious side note, that is actually what I think whenever I see Southeastern Asian men :rofl: Bless Ed Sheeran for explaining my feelings in his song :laugh:

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        I don't post in things like this much but whatever

        Pros
        I'm kind.
        I'm caring.
        I'll always try to make time for you.
        Loyal.
        Genuine.
        Easygoing I suppose? Depends I suppose. I've been told I can be quite laid back but then other times I'm anxious haha.
        Loving
        I like hugs. XD

        Cons
        Can overthink.
        Can doubt myself.
        Sensitive - I guess some people might think that's a good thing...

        There may be more for each but I can't really think of any at the moment haha.

        It was actually quite cathartic to write down some positive points about myself
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        (Original post by Donereh)
        Who doesn't need a pillow?
        hahahahaha
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        (Original post by UWS)
        I don't think there's anything wrong with being an immigrant? Where are you from?
        It's not a positive thing either. I'm moroccan/italian
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        (Original post by oShahpo)
        Pros: Knows the origin of the the idea of pros and cons, including the exact date of it's first appearance in literature.
        Cons: Knows the origin of the the idea of pros and cons, including the exact date of it's first appearance in literature

        Seriously though,
        Pros: willing try anything new.
        Cons: Like to babble about stuff like philosophy every once in a while
        So what's the origin?
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        (Original post by beeninetytwo)
        Pros: I love blow jobs :flutter:

        Cons: I also love horses :ahee:
        you will regret saying that.
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        (Original post by Anebris59)
        It's not a positive thing either. I'm moroccan/italian
        What's not positive though? That's a very nice mix tbh
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        (Original post by RainMakesWhisky)
        So what's the origin?
        Comes from the Latin Pro et Contra. First documented use is in the 15th century by a poet called George Villiers trying to decide on whether to propose to a lady.
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        (Original post by gameofno)
        hahahahaha
        Of course, definitely not me!
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        (Original post by UWS)
        So, what would be the pros and cons of someone dating you?

        You can be as honest or as creative as you can be.
        The idea of this thread is to express how you feel about the positives and negatives about yourself.

        Pros: You won't be single
        Cons: You'll be dating me

        Discuss.

        Disclaimer: TSR is not a dating site but feel free to interact with other users.
        Pros: Ermm...I don't think I can fill this in.
        Cons: Everything else.
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        Pros and cons, you decide
        Loyal
        Caring
        Easy going (but have my views in which regards I'm probabaly stubborn)
        Sensitive
        Like me time and sometimes I need to be alone
        Don't know how to take compliments or receive expensive gifts
        Don't like spending too much and hate spending someone else's money
        Like kids
        People think I'm intelligent- just a front. I'm actually dumb
        Can see through lies
        Like to laugh, pretty much anything will have me giggling
        Extremely ticklish
        Sometimes I need a cry

        :dontknow: I could add loads more. Let's just leave it at that
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        (Original post by starfab)
        Pros and cons, you decide
        Loyal
        Caring
        Easy going (but have my views in which regards I'm probabaly stubborn)
        Sensitive
        Like me time and sometimes I need to be alone
        Don't know how to take compliments or receive expensive gifts
        Don't like spending too much and hate spending someone else's money
        Like kids
        People think I'm intelligent- just a front. I'm actually dumb
        Can see through lies
        Like to laugh, pretty much anything will have me giggling
        Extremely ticklish
        Sometimes I need a cry
        Sounds fine to me, nothing really too bad there
       
       
       
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