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    (Original post by unillama)
    he listens to what his friend think and well cares about what others think
    Friends are stupid tbh, they have opinions and that annoys me.
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    (Original post by unillama)
    he listens to what his friend think and well cares about what others think
    What do his friends think?
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    i agree but we had been together for 3 years
    (Original post by l'etranger)
    Friends are stupid tbh, they have opinions and that annoys me.
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    i really like this.....
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    (Original post by unillama)
    i agree but we had been together for 3 years
    I do think it's a bit pathetic to listen to your guy friends, I could never imagine liking something who wasn't either a blood relative or a lover enough to really care about their opinions.
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    that he should just leave me
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    What do his friends think?
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    i knw but we have had 3 long years and well i just really miss it tbf
    (Original post by l'etranger)
    I do think it's a bit pathetic to listen to your guy friends, I could never imagine liking something who wasn't either a blood relative or a lover enough to really care about their opinions.
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    (Original post by unillama)
    that he should just leave me
    That's quite sad.
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    and i feel like **** rn
    (Original post by Pikachū)
    That's quite sad.
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    (Original post by unillama)
    and i feel like **** rn
    I don't know why people do that actually, I've never questioned my friends about their choice nor have they questioned me. Some people are just nosey I guess.

    Can't give any advice but hope you feel better soon.
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    find someone new


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    Masturbate 10 ten times a day.
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    (Original post by unillama)
    dead!trapking
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      (Original post by unillama)
      just state...
      Cry-****.
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      Realise that you two weren't meant to be, and it's not a matter of 'if this happened or if he did this, it would've worked out'. It just means you're meant to be with someone else. Don't dwell on what could have been, accept what is.

      Look at the reasons for you breaking up with him; if they were valid and couldn't/wouldn't have been resolved, then you'll know you've made the right decision to move forward in life. This should eliminate any regrets.

      Once you've gotten rid of regrets and hope, all that's left is sorrow. Unfortunately, this usually requires time, but certain factors can certainly speed up the process. Talk to friends and family, find a new hobby, become more self aware. The last is my favourite, because the more you know yourself, the more you know what you want in life, and you may realise that he's actually entirely not right for you. It allows you to grow as a person, and that's what I believe is moving forward in life.

      Good luck
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      (Original post by LauraMayden1)
      Realise that you two weren't meant to be, and it's not a matter of 'if this happened or if he did this, it would've worked out'. It just means you're meant to be with someone else. Don't dwell on what could have been, accept what is.

      Look at the reasons for you breaking up with him; if they were valid and couldn't/wouldn't have been resolved, then you'll know you've made the right decision to move forward in life. This should eliminate any regrets.

      Once you've gotten rid of regrets and hope, all that's left is sorrow. Unfortunately, this usually requires time, but certain factors can certainly speed up the process. Talk to friends and family, find a new hobby, become more self aware. The last is my favourite, because the more you know yourself, the more you know what you want in life, and you may realise that he's actually entirely not right for you. It allows you to grow as a person, and that's what I believe is moving forward in life.


      Good luck
      yeah thanks but what we broke up over is something so petite that you'd probably want to laugh and that why i dont really want to tell anyone
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      thats unhealthy
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      move on, get over it, and be happy dont go rushing into rebunds - they dont work and it not fair really and glo up.

      Forget the person and if he move to you again tell him to jump.
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      (Original post by unillama)
      yeah thanks but what we broke up over is something so petite that you'd probably want to laugh and that why i dont really want to tell anyone
      I thought you broke up because he cared about what others thought and that was affecting your relationship? I'd say that's a legitimate reason, provided he wasn't willing to change that.
     
     
     
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