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    I met a guy recently, and I've been on two dates with him.

    He's incredibly kind, friendly, easy to talk to, and he has a lot going for him; he's got a good job, own place etc.

    Facially, I find him attractive, but I feel like there is something missing. He's the same height as me, and I'm 5'7 so tall but not extremely tall. I think that there's no spark, and I just don't find him very sexy, which might sound immature..

    He seems keen, and on the date last time he was trying to put his arm around me, and I think he wanted to lean in for a kiss but I just let him kiss me on the cheek.

    I'm 25, and I've been hurt in the past by men; my friend said that I go for guys who seem 'exciting' but that I end up getting hurt by, and that I should go for someone more like him.

    She's right, and in the long-term, someone like him would be good; he seems someone you can rely on, who could provide stability etc., but I don't know if I'm attracted enough. I cannot picture myself sleeping with him, even kissing him.

    Maybe I'll regret it and I should give him a chance, but I don't feel that attraction to him. What do others think? Thanks
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