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She has a boyfriend but is showing all the signs that she wants me watch


    (Original post by FranktheYank)
    For clarity's sake: I meant to ask "is cuddling and holding hands a normal stage in courting". Not "isn't". It's an actual question.

    Autocorrect and this site don't get along.
    Good sign you're heading for 1st base, not quite there yet tho
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Wait for dumping before you start pumping.
    lol like he's going to wait for that...

    to OP if she wants it give it to her...but be careful though you're treading on fine water

    Dating someone so desperately lacking in self-esteem and consequently, terrified of ever being alone that at the first sign of conflict they would sooner seek comfort in the arms of a temporary emotional surrogate than actually confront their partner with a view to either repairing or dissolving the relationship, is a sure-fire recipe for long-term hardship.

    Ultimately, what you're doing is a disservice to the both of you: if she can't muster the self-possession to leave a dysfunctional relationship of her own accord then she's in no fit state to make any kind of rational assessment of her true feelings towards you, or indeed as to whether you're even emotionally compatible, and you'd be a callow fool to believe otherwise.

    Consider yourself duly forewarned.
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