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    Guys, why do you obsess over a girl for a few days by messaging her all of the time, complimenting her, showing interest in her...and then not message her at all?
    Is it because you have found someone better, or because you're wanting her to message you? I'm so confused. I know that there are many reasons, but please could you tell me some possible reasons?

    A guy (who has told me he likes me) has been messaging me nearly every day but has now just stopped messaging me. It's not even like I was being cold towards him, I was flirting back! This guy often goes through phases of messaging me a lot and then not messaging me at all.
    Whyyyyy?
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    Lychee627
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    simply put:

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    (Original post by Lychee627)
    Dont quote me , idek you.

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    Thought you left...

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    boys are weird hehe
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    You're in then you're out
    You're up then you're down
    You're wrong when it's right
    It's black and it's white
    We fight, we break up
    We kiss, we make up
    (You) You don't really wanna stay, no
    (You) But you don't really wanna go-o
    You're hot then you're cold
    You're yes then you're no
    You're in then you're out
    You're up then you're down
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    (Original post by Supernova91)
    boys are weird hehe
    Nope. Its just girls are extremely hard to figure out.
    Most girls are like an extremely hard puzzle.

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    Ask him?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Guys, why do you obsess over a girl for a few days by messaging her all of the time, complimenting her, showing interest in her...and then not message her at all?
    Is it because you have found someone better, or because you're wanting her to message you? I'm so confused. I know that there are many reasons, but please could you tell me some possible reasons?

    A guy (who has told me he likes me) has been messaging me nearly every day but has now just stopped messaging me. It's not even like I was being cold towards him, I was flirting back! This guy often goes through phases of messaging me a lot and then not messaging me at all.
    Whyyyyy?
    Becuase he wants to check to see whether you like him back. Clearly he likes you and he wants you to reciprocate otherwise he'll go elsewhere.
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    (Original post by Lychee627)
    I did leave, some people just dont leave me alone😂


    Who the hell are you? Leave me alone?

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    :rofl: hi glad you are back

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    Because they are indecisive? 👀
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    (Original post by Lychee627)
    I did leave, some people just dont leave me alone😂


    Who the hell are you? Leave me alone?

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    :rofl:

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    (Original post by wolfmoon88)
    :rofl: hi glad you are back

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    Some play games.
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    It's because we think that'll help us be in and then out, if ya know what I mean :sexface:

    Not messaging at all might just be that they're busy, do you ever message first?
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    (Original post by Lychee627)
    Ikr jheezz

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    When u leaving :unimpressed:

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    (Original post by Dhanny)
    Nope. Its just girls are extremely hard to figure out.
    Most girls are like an extremely hard puzzle.

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    ''Twas a joke . A broad sweeping statement if I must say x
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    (Original post by Supernova91)
    ''Twas a joke . A broad sweeping statement if I must say x
    It was? Well yunnoe I actually agreed with your joke.
    Cos ngl loads are.........

    Btw whats a broad sweeping statement?

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    (Original post by Lychee627)
    Im going byee :wavey:

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    Bye

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    If they're cold at all, don't bother.

    Guys are pretty straightforward. If they like you enough they'll make the effort etc etc. However, guys are human beings and we are inherently fickle so....
 
 
 
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