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    I really need help guys. I can't stop myself from feeling like I need to be wanted by someone else if that makes sense? I have a desire for/an urge to be wanted or in others words to be in a relationship. It's making me feel extremely lonely and upset I just genuinely can't even focus on more important things such as my dissertation and I know that sounds extremely silly and pathetic but I honestly don't know how to prevent this from happening. I've lost a significant amount of confident in myself because it's been such a long time since my previous relationship and I just feel extremely undesirable. How do I stop feeling like this?
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    sorry are you a boy or a girl?
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    I know it's difficult and also hypocritical coming from me, but most especially at this time of the year please devote your time to your university work and getting that done to the best of your ability.

    You'll be fine, trust me OP. Just keep your chin up.
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    OP sounds more or less like me , so I know how difficult it is.

    If you want to talk then do feel free to DM
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    (Original post by maitre gims)
    sorry are you a boy or a girl?
    I'm a 21 year old girl


    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    I know it's difficult and also hypocritical coming from me, but most especially at this time of the year please devote your time to your university work and getting that done to the best of your ability.

    You'll be fine, trust me OP. Just keep your chin up.
    I really ought to.

    Thank you for your reply
 
 
 
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