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    I don't know why but when someone tells me they're attracted to me/ they want to date me/ find me sexually attractive, I find it hard to believe. I'm just like really am I capable of attracting people? I dont know why I feel like this since I don't think I'm ugly... I feel that I'm probably above average, but nothing special and not wow pretty or anything. Still I'm shocked when someone fancies me. I want to know does anyone else feel like this? Or am I just paranoid.
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    Pics for proof :ninja:
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    some girls I find very attractive are sometimes the total opposite of what my friends do
    we've all got our kinks, and what you might look in the mirror finding ugly is what some random girl will probably dig
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    You probably don't fancy people the way they fancy you, is that it?
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
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    Someone's a bit thirsty :ninja:
    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    You probably don't fancy people the way they fancy you, is that it?
    Well I do :lol: I go really red and it's really obvious that I fancy the person, so it's not that. I just find it odd when someone likes me, I just keep thinking why like what did I do to make them like me
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    Op: You've just got a general insecurity, and a lot of people think that. There are people who will and won't like you, that's the way the world works.
    Though sometimes people can lie for one reason or another, though go against your insecurity and see what happens. Worst case scenario, you'll learn about liars (and other ****)

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