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    I was 16 and went out with a 23 year old for 8 months - it was a complete disaster and I wish I'd never met him; be careful.
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    Age doesn't matter I think. But the most important things is your satisfaction. If you are satisfied dating with any person who is younger than you I think it's okey.
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    **** no. Also her Dad will kill you, if he has anything about him.
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    (Original post by JS995)
    Recently I was flicking through the black hole that is tinder. I matched with a very attrative girl with who I had the most 'common connections' with than any other match.

    I've began messaging and after the usual small talk and flirtatious banter she told me she was actually 16 and not 19 as her profile had said.

    I didn't said its a little weird but we continued talking, I had no intentions of taking things further. We were literally just talking. She shares almost every view I have on a political and philosophical level as well as a smiliar taste in music (mine is super obscure) as well as art and film.

    She added me on Facebook and from there we have been chatting a lot. We will talk on FaceTime or a phone call for 5 hours. Discussion different things from hobbys and interests to personnel aspirations.

    She's told me she likes me. And I like her back. It's just weird.

    Is it alright?

    That I can't decide. I know guys with the same 5 year gap and they had no worries doing it. I know people who were 25 and 16 and have been going strong for a few years now but it still feels weird and I can't decide what to do.

    I definitely want to keep her in my life even if just as a friend but I would prefer to be intimate.

    I know we aren't breaking any laws if we do decide to get together but the gap is literally keeping me awake at night. Any thoughts/opinions would be great.
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    Lawful.

    But wrong. Age of consent is 16 unless you are in a position of trust, such as a librarian, police officer, community worker or teacher. if so, run the **** away. But do that anyway bc bro she's 16 wtf r u doin
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    It's definitely playing with fire. You should remember what you where like at 16.
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    (Original post by JS995)
    Recently I was flicking through the black hole that is tinder. I matched with a very attrative girl with who I had the most 'common connections' with than any other match.

    I've began messaging and after the usual small talk and flirtatious banter she told me she was actually 16 and not 19 as her profile had said.

    I didn't said its a little weird but we continued talking, I had no intentions of taking things further. We were literally just talking. She shares almost every view I have on a political and philosophical level as well as a smiliar taste in music (mine is super obscure) as well as art and film.

    She added me on Facebook and from there we have been chatting a lot. We will talk on FaceTime or a phone call for 5 hours. Discussion different things from hobbys and interests to personnel aspirations.

    She's told me she likes me. And I like her back. It's just weird.

    Is it alright?

    That I can't decide. I know guys with the same 5 year gap and they had no worries doing it. I know people who were 25 and 16 and have been going strong for a few years now but it still feels weird and I can't decide what to do.

    I definitely want to keep her in my life even if just as a friend but I would prefer to be intimate.

    I know we aren't breaking any laws if we do decide to get together but the gap is literally keeping me awake at night. Any thoughts/opinions would be great.
    I like a larger gap between the ages tbqh. I'm 20 and my "girlfreind" is 11. We have been dating for 2 years now but she only knew about me and her being a "thing" last year. She is really good in bed and likes it when I act younger than her. She dresses up as a clown. I love her tits <3 19 no 9 teens maybe
 
 
 
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