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Well I was starting out a relationship with this guy. Things were going fine but I wasn t really seeing him much. I saw him Saturday just gone but that was with his friend and mine on a last minute arrangment and his attitude was slightly off, I spoke to his friend more than I did to him. So we spoke about it later on and I started to overthink. I was worried he was sleeping with other girls or talking to other girls. So I asked him if he was and he told me no I m not. I believe him and the next day (yesterday) we had arranged to spend time together just us, he responded with nah I m to tired (we did stay out quite late the night before). But as this has happened so many times my thoughts got ahead of me to questioning if it s going to work and brought it up to him he said he wants to be with me and is interested in me. So I told him you don t act like it. He then flipped and said don t worry then. I tried to reassure him and tell him I only want to discuss it and try to work it out. He said he can t be arsed right now and that life s to short. I tried to open up to him and explain things but he has ignored me. Should I message now a day after and try to explain or should I leave it longer or wait for him to respond.. if ever?
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Well I was starting out a relationship with this guy. Things were going fine but I wasn t really seeing him much. I saw him Saturday just gone but that was with his friend and mine on a last minute arrangment and his attitude was slightly off, I spoke to his friend more than I did to him. So we spoke about it later on and I started to overthink. I was worried he was sleeping with other girls or talking to other girls. So I asked him if he was and he told me no I m not. I believe him and the next day (yesterday) we had arranged to spend time together just us, he responded with nah I m to tired (we did stay out quite late the night before). But as this has happened so many times my thoughts got ahead of me to questioning if it s going to work and brought it up to him he said he wants to be with me and is interested in me. So I told him you don t act like it. He then flipped and said don t worry then. I tried to reassure him and tell him I only want to discuss it and try to work it out. He said he can t be arsed right now and that life s to short. I tried to open up to him and explain things but he has ignored me. Should I message now a day after and try to explain or should I leave it longer or wait for him to respond.. if ever?
Well I was starting out a relationship with this guy. Things were going fine but I wasn t really seeing him much. I saw him Saturday just gone but that was with his friend and mine on a last minute arrangment and his attitude was slightly off, I spoke to his friend more than I did to him. So we spoke about it later on and I started to overthink. I was worried he was sleeping with other girls or talking to other girls. So I asked him if he was and he told me no I m not. I believe him and the next day (yesterday) we had arranged to spend time together just us, he responded with nah I m to tired (we did stay out quite late the night before). But as this has happened so many times my thoughts got ahead of me to questioning if it s going to work and brought it up to him he said he wants to be with me and is interested in me. So I told him you don t act like it. He then flipped and said don t worry then. I tried to reassure him and tell him I only want to discuss it and try to work it out. He said he can t be arsed right now and that life s to short. I tried to open up to him and explain things but he has ignored me. Should I message now a day after and try to explain or should I leave it longer or wait for him to respond.. if ever?
maybe you should ignore him for a while and see what happens- if after a few days lets say, he doesnt say anything- then consider it a sign for you to move on and find someone who's worth your time!
You're better than that
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