is it bad that I allow my girlfriend to dominate me? she whips me and spanks my balls. im not comfortable with it as it's painful but im afraid if I say stop she'll make me humiliate myself in public like she did the first time I disobeyed her.
is it bad that I allow my girlfriend to dominate me? she whips me and spanks my balls. im not comfortable with it as it's painful but im afraid if I say stop she'll make me humiliate myself in public like she did the first time I disobeyed her.
Domination play is fine as long as both parties are okay with it. If you are not okay with it you should ask for her to stop. If she refuses she is being abusive and you should end the relationship as it is not healthy for you. Likewise, the humiliation is only okay if it is part of the play and you are okay with it. If you are not okay with it she should not be doing it. Dom/ humiliation play without consent is abuse. And you should not stick around in an abusive relationship.