I am being bullied by certain guys in my year. There are two lessons where I have to sit with two boys beside me. They always shout out hurtful things and tease me in front of the whole class . I'm afraid to tell ky teachers because right now they think I'm really clever and if I do tell them it will be embarassimg and they might think I'm dumb so ppl bully me and they might lose their respect for me . I don't know how to put a stop to it . I'm quiet so I cant speak up for myself . I don't want to tell a teacher bc they will they think I'm dumb and cant stand up for myself . They might also just think that I'm one of those weird strange students that get bullied . How do I stop it and will teachers actually think that if I said it
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I'm afraid to tell ky teachers because right now they think I'm really clever and if I do tell them it will be embarassimg and they might think I'm dumb
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(Original post by randomgirl995)
I am being bullied by certain guys in my year. There are two lessons where I have to sit with two boys beside me. They always shout out hurtful things and tease me in front of the whole class . I'm afraid to tell ky teachers because right now they think I'm really clever and if I do tell them it will be embarassimg and they might think I'm dumb so ppl bully me and they might lose their respect for me . I don't know how to put a stop to it . I'm quiet so I cant speak up for myself . I don't want to tell a teacher bc they will they think I'm dumb and cant stand up for myself . They might also just think that I'm one of those weird strange students that get bullied . How do I stop it and will teachers actually think that if I said it -
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- 10-01-2017 16:54
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Your threads are a bit... Idk if your a troll but reporting someone for bullying won't make you look dumb. You don't even have to report them and can just talk to them. Also your 'friend' that keeps following you lol.
know what to say because its embarrassing
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no teachers don't think that way at all. being bullied does not make a person dumb.
it happens to everyone, tell someone otherwise it will continue!
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(Original post by randomgirl995)
I am being bullied by certain guys in my year. There are two lessons where I have to sit with two boys beside me. They always shout out hurtful things and tease me in front of the whole class . I'm afraid to tell ky teachers because right now they think I'm really clever and if I do tell them it will be embarassimg and they might think I'm dumb so ppl bully me and they might lose their respect for me . I don't know how to put a stop to it . I'm quiet so I cant speak up for myself . I don't want to tell a teacher bc they will they think I'm dumb and cant stand up for myself . They might also just think that I'm one of those weird strange students that get bullied . How do I stop it and will teachers actually think that if I said it -
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(Original post by randomgirl995)
What do i even say its embarrassing I don't even
know what to say because its embarrassing
that should be enough
they will enquire who it is and have your back... well a good teacher would
i was bullied badly at school - and i was a huge guy so imagine how embarrassing that should have been for me - but gotta admire how well i was looked after by the teachers, they really looked out for me. dunno if teachers are like that anymore -
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Tell them to go **** themselves!
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It stopped the day i stood up and punched the biggest of them so bad that i was rusticated for a week ... ~
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(Original post by randomgirl995)
I am being bullied by certain guys in my year. There are two lessons where I have to sit with two boys beside me. They always shout out hurtful things and tease me in front of the whole class . I'm afraid to tell ky teachers because right now they think I'm really clever and if I do tell them it will be embarassimg and they might think I'm dumb so ppl bully me and they might lose their respect for me . I don't know how to put a stop to it . I'm quiet so I cant speak up for myself . I don't want to tell a teacher bc they will they think I'm dumb and cant stand up for myself . They might also just think that I'm one of those weird strange students that get bullied . How do I stop it and will teachers actually think that if I said it
I know it is difficult being bullied by a couple of guys but try and identify the main one. Why is it that they are bullying you? Once you have identified the main bully, try and identify their weakness. Everyone has a weakness. Once you have found their weakness, try confronting them and ask them why they think what they are doing is okay.
Once you have done this, ignore them for a few days. If the problem continues then try reporting it to a teacher in confidence. A lot of teachers do help, forget senior management - they are useless. Now at least you have the confidence that you have confronted them and told your teacher. By the way, this does NOT make you a snitch. You are a VICTIM of a hurtful crime.
If this fails and the bullies still find it cool, then go for the last resort - FIGHT BACK HARD! Get some of your friends as back up. Plan this out very carefully. Get a gym membership and really workout. Take up some form of martial arts or boxing. Gain confidence and then go up to the main bully - yes there is almost always one main bully and let him know that all this BS is over! Tell him that you have no right to be treated like that and that if he/she thinks they can do it and get away with it - that they have to think twice!
I don't like resorting to violence, but it is my last option. Why should I or you have to accept being bullied you know -
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- 10-01-2017 19:13
(Original post by yunglife)
Assuming you are a guy here are my tips and advice:
I know it is difficult being bullied by a couple of guys but try and identify the main one. Why is it that they are bullying you? Once you have identified the main bully, try and identify their weakness. Everyone has a weakness. Once you have found their weakness, try confronting them and ask them why they think what they are doing is okay.
Once you have done this, ignore them for a few days. If the problem continues then try reporting it to a teacher in confidence. A lot of teachers do help, forget senior management - they are useless. Now at least you have the confidence that you have confronted them and told your teacher. By the way, this does NOT make you a snitch. You are a VICTIM of a hurtful crime.
If this fails and the bullies still find it cool, then go for the last resort - FIGHT BACK HARD! Get some of your friends as back up. Plan this out very carefully. Get a gym membership and really workout. Take up some form of martial arts or boxing. Gain confidence and then go up to the main bully - yes there is almost always one main bully and let him know that all this BS is over! Tell him that you have no right to be treated like that and that if he/she thinks they can do it and get away with it - that they have to think twice!
I don't like resorting to violence, but it is my last option. Why should I or you have to accept being bullied you know -
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- 10-01-2017 19:17
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say "i'm being bullied"
that should be enough
they will enquire who it is and have your back... well a good teacher would
i was bullied badly at school - and i was a huge guy so imagine how embarrassing that should have been for me - but gotta admire how well i was looked after by the teachers, they really looked out for me. dunno if teachers are like that anymore -
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(Original post by randomgirl995)
when do I go to the teacher and what do I say. I don't want to say I'm bullied its still emabrassing is there anything else I could say
What about people who get mugged on the streets, wives who get domestically abused? Are they embarrassed for not speaking up? Of course, not - that is why they report it to the police - who in turn make a public appeal and give these victims some form of justice.
Seriously mate, if I was your best friend I would knock them out cold - but I would have at least consulted with the teacher first. It is your life - NOT THEIRS -
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- 10-01-2017 19:38
(Original post by yunglife)
You go to the teacher when you feel like nothing can be done by you to resolve the problem. I know what it is like as I was once in a similar situation to you. You don't really want to tell your parents or siblings in case they worry about you or what not. All I can say is to try and take a civil approach first. Speaking to a teacher can help - especially one that really likes you as a student. Mate, there is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. Just because you are being bullied DOES NOT MAKE YOU WEAK!
What about people who get mugged on the streets, wives who get domestically abused? Are they embarrassed for not speaking up? Of course, not - that is why they report it to the police - who in turn make a public appeal and give these victims some form of justice.
Seriously mate, if I was your best friend I would knock them out cold - but I would have at least consulted with the teacher first. It is your life - NOT THEIRS -
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what do I say I don't wanna say I'm being bullied. -
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You are just going to have to admit it and tell them what is really going on. What is the point of hiding it? By hiding it, the teachers won't know and no the teachers will not discriminate against you -
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(Original post by randomgirl995)
what do I say I don't wanna say I'm being bullied.
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- 10-01-2017 22:23
I have been bullied in school but ik it's hard but you have to tell a teacher or any member of staff that you trust and they can help you with this, I'm sorry to hear that you are being bullied, it's not a nice experience I hope it gets better for you soon!
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