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    I spoke to this girl online everyday for a few months, I was very attatched to her and later on at the end she got annoyed with me for some reason and now she's gone forever.

    I miss her a lot and I feel empty. I always used to think of her, all I knew about her was her name and her face and that she lived in this city a few hours away from me.

    Now she's left and I couldnt confess my true feelings to her. Back when we used to speak, I used to dream of her and I always looked forward to speaking to her online.

    What shall I do to get over this?
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    How do you know she is who she said she is
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    (Original post by Yasgre)
    I spoke to this girl online everyday for a few months, I was very attatched to her and later on at the end she got annoyed with me for some reason and now she's gone forever.

    I miss her a lot and I feel empty. I always used to think of her, all I knew about her was her name and her face and that she lived in this city a few hours away from me.

    Now she's left and I couldnt confess my true feelings to her. Back when we used to speak, I used to dream of her and I always looked forward to speaking to her online.

    What shall I do to get over this?
    forget about it, you dont know her in real life
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    This is gonna happen to me OP, I used to Skype someone every day but then took an issue with one of her "jokes" And cut off the call, I doubt she'll call me again
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    (Original post by CarysJSLewis)
    How do you know she is who she said she is
    We knew each other for 7 months and for the last few months we spoke to each other everyday.
    I know she was who she was because of that.
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    (Original post by Yasgre)
    I spoke to this girl online everyday for a few months, I was very attatched to her and later on at the end she got annoyed with me for some reason and now she's gone forever.

    I miss her a lot and I feel empty. I always used to think of her, all I knew about her was her name and her face and that she lived in this city a few hours away from me.

    Now she's left and I couldnt confess my true feelings to her. Back when we used to speak, I used to dream of her and I always looked forward to speaking to her online.

    What shall I do to get over this?
    I was only a few months. You never met her. Move on and it will just take some time. Keep busy. Learn from it and maybe next time say soemthing whilst you have the chance and then you will find out if she feels the same way.
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    (Original post by Yasgre)
    We knew each other for 7 months and for the last few months we spoke to each other everyday.
    I know she was who she was because of that.
    Did you ever Skype her? Or was it just chatting and the odd photo?
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    (Original post by shawn_o1)
    This is gonna happen to me OP, I used to Skype someone every day but then took an issue with one of her "jokes" And cut off the call, I doubt she'll call me again
    Well I hope it works out for you my friend and I wish you the best with her.
    Even we used to have these little fallouts once in a while too but we always patched up later on but shes gone forever now.
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    (Original post by CarysJSLewis)
    Did you ever Skype her? Or was it just chatting and the odd photo?
    Just chatting and the odd photo.
    Dont worry, im a 100% sure she wasnt a fake identity.
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    If you know her name, couldn't you look her up? Or even the online name?
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    I know how you feel OP i am dealing with the same thing
    Best thing is to keep occupied by other things so you can get your mind off her
    Wish you luck OP!!
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    (Original post by Yasgre)
    I spoke to this girl online everyday for a few months, I was very attatched to her and later on at the end she got annoyed with me for some reason and now she's gone forever.

    I miss her a lot and I feel empty. I always used to think of her, all I knew about her was her name and her face and that she lived in this city a few hours away from me.

    Now she's left and I couldnt confess my true feelings to her. Back when we used to speak, I used to dream of her and I always looked forward to speaking to her online.

    What shall I do to get over this?
    yh its sucks but it sounds like this was your first time so you dont really have experience on getting over it. Ive been talking to this girl who lives like an hour away from me since summer like everyday non stop and I cant imagine a day without talking to her.
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    (Original post by Yasgre)
    Just chatting and the odd photo.
    Dont worry, im a 100% sure she wasnt a fake identity.
    I'm afraid it doesn't check out though. People can do really crappy things when hiding behind a computer screen. You need to consider the possibility that you were being catfished... Once people get in too deep with these kinds of things, they panic and ditch their victim.
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    (Original post by MissIntrov)
    If you know her name, couldn't you look her up? Or even the online name?
    I tried but I found nothing. I dont really think she had much on social media and she told me she kept her social accounts private.
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    (Original post by gman999)
    yh its sucks but it sounds like this was your first time so you dont really have experience on getting over it. Ive been talking to this girl who lives like an hour away from me since summer like everyday non stop and I cant imagine a day without talking to her.
    To be honest , it was my first time I've been deeply attatched to a girl. I dont even care about how she looks, just her personality won me over. In real, Ive not really bonded much with girls eventhough ive been approached a few times because im generally really shy but with her It was as if I'd seen a new me.
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    (Original post by Yasgre)
    To be honest , it was my first time I've been deeply attatched to a girl. I dont even care about how she looks, just her personality won me over. In real, Ive not really bonded much with girls eventhough ive been approached a few times because im generally really shy but with her It was as if I'd seen a new me.
    What were your last words to her and vice versa?
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    (Original post by toonervoustotalk)
    I know how you feel OP i am dealing with the same thing
    Best thing is to keep occupied by other things so you can get your mind off her
    Wish you luck OP!!
    Thank you so much. I wish you the best of luck too.Hopefully we will be able to get over it and maybe patch up or find someone more compatible with ourselves.
    The problem is, its not like I think of her all the time, its just those odd moments once in a while and it suddenly just gives me this massive feeling of depression.
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    (Original post by gman999)
    What were your last words to her and vice versa?
    She told me she was leaving the socialising website we were using to talk to each other. I shook it off as a joke and didnt take it seriously but then she actually did leave.

    She said she would leave before too but she lied because she didnt. I think it was because she wanted to check out my reaction.
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    (Original post by CarysJSLewis)
    I'm afraid it doesn't check out though. People can do really crappy things when hiding behind a computer screen. You need to consider the possibility that you were being catfished... Once people get in too deep with these kinds of things, they panic and ditch their victim.
    I see what you mean but why would people like to do this for? Whats the fun in playing with another persons feelings?
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    She is nothing special if she drops you like that.
 
 
 
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