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    In september I started sixth form at a new school completely on my own and by myself.I haven't made any friends I can say I can truly hang out with.I am only close to 3 people from each lesson.One I can't hang out with because her friends are very *****y and told her they don't want me around as I'm "taking" her away from them.I only hang out with her once in a while after school and in lesson.The other person again only in lesson and once in a while after school,Im trying to slowly get in that group but it's hard as they've come together already from a different school.The other person I was really close to but now she has dropped me for two other girls.Now I just get to watch them hanging out and tagging each other in posts she used to tag me in.I'm very isolated and I spend my breaks and frees alone as I can't hang out with anyone.I feel like I am wasting my life,I'm scared I wont even get the grades for uni because I'm so distracted by letting other people decide my happiness.Nothing is good but nothing is that bad either I don't know what I'm feeling anymore and I'm scared I'll stay this way forever,isolated on my own with no idea where I belong and if Ill ever find someone who cares for me and makes an effortwith me.Yeah sorry for the long post don't know where else to put my thoughts
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    In september I started sixth form at a new school completely on my own and by myself.I haven't made any friends I can say I can truly hang out with.I am only close to 3 people from each lesson.One I can't hang out with because her friends are very *****y and told her they don't want me around as I'm "taking" her away from them.I only hang out with her once in a while after school and in lesson.The other person again only in lesson and once in a while after school,Im trying to slowly get in that group but it's hard as they've come together already from a different school.The other person I was really close to but now she has dropped me for two other girls.Now I just get to watch them hanging out and tagging each other in posts she used to tag me in.I'm very isolated and I spend my breaks and frees alone as I can't hang out with anyone.I feel like I am wasting my life,I'm scared I wont even get the grades for uni because I'm so distracted by letting other people decide my happiness.Nothing is good but nothing is that bad either I don't know what I'm feeling anymore and I'm scared I'll stay this way forever,isolated on my own with no idea where I belong and if Ill ever find someone who cares for me and makes an effortwith me.Yeah sorry for the long post don't know where else to put my thoughts
    That describes my entire seven years at school. I only made friends(ish) in the last year of Sixth Form. I'm at uni now and don't talk to any of them, but have some amazing uni friends.

    All of those friendship groups I tried to join in Sixth Form - they don't talk to each other now either. I felt so like giving up as I was miserable and had no friends - and people knew it. I'm so glad I held on as uni is the best decision I ever made and I am so happy. I don't have countless friends, but I have close ones that matter.

    Hang in there. True friends pop up in the most unexpected places.
 
 
 
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