To forgive or not??help ppl!!

Hey ppl...
Just wanted some help...me and my "ex" broke up in May...
We stopped talking for a month and he went zante in June...
Basically, on holiday he claims that he slept with 3 girls...which broke my heart because I still had feelings for him...
Anyway, things were quite bad and he wanted me out of his life...
But then we met one day in July and since then things started improving...
It was my bday yesterday and we went out and started kissing in front of everyone.. He really seems to have realised that he loves me now... and i still love him too...
Thing is, i don't know whether to go out with him and forgive him or not... I mean, he didn't cheat on me and he was single to do what he wanted... I had told him that I was dealing with someone during the month that we didn't speak too...
But it still hurts me..3 girls?! thats sick isn't it??
what would u do??

Reply 1

marshall123

ANYONE?? plz

Reply 2

username47781

IS this the same guy you are talking about http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?p=8480795#post8480795 because if so then you would be mad to go back to him.

Reply 3

Innuendo_anonymous

I think you should give him another chance. He sounds like he's sorry from what you've said. Just make sure he isn't using you.
Who broke up with who btw?

P.S. He might be lying about the three girls, you might want to talk to him about it before you go into a relationship. Just to clear the air.

Reply 4

marshall123

Rock Fan

IS this the same guy you are talking about http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?p=8480795#post8480795 because if so then you would be mad to go back to him.

No thats not him. another guy. lol.

Reply 5

prettygreeneyes99

Did he actually tell you that he'd slept with other people of his own accord, or did you ask?

Reply 6

Innuendo_anonymous

Rock Fan

IS this the same guy you are talking about http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?p=8480795#post8480795 because if so then you would be mad to go back to him.

If its the guy in that post, i'd suggest you dont get involved at all. Sounds a bit of a jerk really. He might just be out for sex again. But if he does have real feelings for you, i guess it might be worth giving it another try. Up to you really.

Reply 7

Ang|ophi|e

Normally I'd say move on. But if he has feelings for you and you have feelings for him then it sems unlikely that you will move on. You should however ask him for some time to sort things out. If he really wants to be with you, he'll wait.