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    So I like this girl and in person we have been getting on well, even flirting a little bit and things have been going pretty well, it's just on messages she seems distant usually takes a while to respond and when she does it a short response, we also have a group chat and she sees messages sent in there that were sent after i sent my message :/ she doesnt usually respond to them tho unless it is something directed to her, it might be that she prefers you know face to face and isn't really a texting person, but idk, any advice?
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    Bad texters are awful partners. Trust me
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    (Original post by AreUHigh)
    Bad texters are awful partners. Trust me
    Not true. Bad texters are actually more real and honest/upfront. Good texters, well you're a good texted if you chat a load of ********. I've known good texters to mainly be ****boys and bad guys. Genuine nice guys= bad at texting
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I like this girl and in person we have been getting on well, even flirting a little bit and things have been going pretty well, it's just on messages she seems distant usually takes a while to respond and when she does it a short response, we also have a group chat and she sees messages sent in there that were sent after i sent my message :/ she doesnt usually respond to them tho unless it is something directed to her, it might be that she prefers you know face to face and isn't really a texting person, but idk, any advice?
    She's probably a bit shy
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    (Original post by gabriellakhan)
    She's probably a bit shy
    How does someone get shy by text, but more open irl?

    Isn't it usually the other way around?
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    (Original post by JesusLuvKoolAid)
    How does someone get shy by text, but more open irl?

    Isn't it usually the other way around?
    I'm more shy on text since it's harder to express my feelings
 
 
 
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