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    I just feel that everyone hates me. No one speaks to me at University. None of my old school friends talk to me anymore either.
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    (Original post by DailyMailIsALiar)
    I just feel that everyone hates me. No one speaks to me at University. None of my old school friends talk to me anymore either.
    I've also noticed you're very needy.
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    (Original post by Popsiclez)
    I've also noticed you're very needy.
    I am not needy. I just feel that I have no friends, as I have never actually talked to anyone outside of school/university. I feel I will be like this forever.
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    (Original post by DailyMailIsALiar)
    I am not needy. I just feel that I have no friends, as I have never actually talked to anyone outside of school/university. I feel I will be like this forever.
    Well its one thing making endless threads about having no friends, and another thing actually doing something about it.
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    (Original post by DailyMailIsALiar)
    I just feel that everyone hates me. No one speaks to me at University. None of my old school friends talk to me anymore either.

    That's fine. I get that a lot too. Don't make your grades fail as no one will even look at you. Make them want to be your friend don't want them. Well that was what my mum usually tells me. Nevertheless, don't fail in all your subjects for these neurotypicals
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    (Original post by DailyMailIsALiar)
    I just feel that everyone hates me. No one speaks to me at University. None of my old school friends talk to me anymore either.
    Have you tried talking to other people? People in your class? Is there a reason for them/anyone to hate you? If not, then they can't possibly HATE you.
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    No you're not falling behind.

    Look, I know what it's like to feel like ****. I'm not gonna go into too much detail , but I had an accident at 14 totally knocked me for 6 missed two years of school on and off. Lost touch with friends , fell behind at school . Also my body changed , my whole life changed basically. I spent maybe a year feeling like ****, dwelling on all sorts of stuff like 'why did this happen to me' blah blah ect . I was the queen of self loathing , no one could beat me.

    What I did realise was that this attitude gets you NOWHERE. Yes , this bad thing happened to me , I can either cry about it for the rest of my life OR make the most out of the rest of my life because (as I discovered) one day it can change without warning .

    Anyway, fast forward 11 years , I did finish school , went to college and graduated university. Yeah , it was a year or so after everyone in my school but who gives a **** ? Not everyone moves at the same pace for whatever reason and so what ?

    I know you post a lot about your situation , and it sucks you're feeling low but as someone who's been to hell and back ... you've got 2 options 1)dwell, sulk, moan or 2)persevere , power through and make the most of it !!!

    Good luck !

    (Original post by DailyMailIsALiar)
    I just feel that everyone hates me. No one speaks to me at University. None of my old school friends talk to me anymore either.
 
 
 
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