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    What are things that people do on a first date that just make you get totally put off?

    Got any stories to share?

    Now I haven't been on a date myself (cue violins playing), but I'd say the following would put me off..

    - Being late
    - Texting and ignoring me

    Discuss.
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    Being rude to the waiter ! :angry:
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    No manners, definitely. Some people treat waiters like shite and on a date, that would be so embarrassing.

    Also, being loud. Like, loud for no reason.
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    when they're on their phone most of time- like put it aside for once!! some attention would be nice

    being rude to waiters :rolleyes:

    and please.....dont brag or show off- its so unattractive!
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    God so many things, my standards are so narrow nowadays (((((((((((((((((((((((((
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    If he talks about an ex on the first date.
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    Burping rlly loud and in my face, being rude to a waiter, being really late, talking about ex's.
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    When I (as a man) have pay for more than 2 rounds of drinks without her even at least offering to buy one.
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    If she was to go out for a fag, I'd be gone before she gets back
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    (Original post by UWS)
    What are things that people do on a first date that just make you get totally put off?

    Got any stories to share?

    Now I haven't been on a date myself (cue violins playing), but I'd say the following would put me off..

    - Being late
    - Texting and ignoring me

    Discuss.
    omg i went on a date a couple of weeks ago and the boy threw up in the cinema all over himself next to me
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    (Original post by lilynily)
    omg i went on a date a couple of weeks ago and the boy threw up in the cinema all over himself next to me
    Oh god.... Have you texted him since? :rofl:

    (Original post by Mustard-man)
    When I (as a man) have pay for more than 2 rounds of drinks without her even at least offering to buy one.
    Gotta find out if she's just in it for the free drinks :lol:
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Oh god.... Have you texted him since? :rofl:



    Gotta find out if she's just in it for the free drinks :lol:
    Yeah i did, but turns out his the one that didn't like me I'm hoping it was just because he was traumatised from it
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    dont...ever...interrupt me....no matter how 'funny' you think your joke is.... your input isnt needed when im trying to make a point
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    dont...ever...interrupt me....no matter how 'funny' you think your joke is.... your input isnt needed when im trying to make a point
    It's a habit of mine to interrupt but I always let the lady speak
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    -Smoking is a instant leave for me vaping too
    -Veggie/Vegan
    - big political difference
    - Peircing anything but earrings is a instant no.
    - Expects me to pay for everything because I am a man
    - No career prospects is a instant no
    - I dont like lots of makeup, I prefer none.
    - Overly feminine and immature
    - Obsessed with Beauty and clothes and handbags ect.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    It's a habit of mine to interrupt but I always let the lady speak
    not cool
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    not cool
    It is an old habit
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    When they can breathe urgh

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    i'm kidding idk, when they're nit picking at everything
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    (Original post by retro_turtles)
    When they can breathe urgh
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    i'm kidding idk, when they're nit picking at everything
    I hate that too lol

    (Original post by AperfectBalance)
    -Smoking is a instant leave for me vaping too
    -Veggie/Vegan
    - big political difference
    - Peircing anything but earrings is a instant no.
    - Expects me to pay for everything because I am a man
    - No career prospects is a instant no
    - I dont like lots of makeup, I prefer none.
    - Overly feminine and immature
    - Obsessed with Beauty and clothes and handbags ect.
    Yep, pretty much me. Not bothered about earrings though.

    I also do like girls with minimal makeup :yep:

    (Original post by Reachin4TheStars)
    Burping rlly loud and in my face, being rude to a waiter, being really late, talking about ex's.
    Oh yeah, ex talk is a big no-no.

    (Original post by Kravence)
    If she was to go out for a fag, I'd be gone before she gets back
    *mic drop*
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    (Original post by Supernova91)
    Being rude to the waiter ! :angry:
    Has that actually happened to you?

    (Original post by MissIntrov)
    No manners, definitely. Some people treat waiters like shite and on a date, that would be so embarrassing.

    Also, being loud. Like, loud for no reason.
    The thing is I've never heard of people being rude to waiters on a date, this is a new thing? :lol:

    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    when they're on their phone most of time- like put it aside for once!! some attention would be nice

    being rude to waiters :rolleyes:

    and please.....dont brag or show off- its so unattractive!
    Ahh that's something we can agree on then! It's rude when someone is texting and you wanna talk to them, sometimes my friends do it but on a date? It's bye Felicia :rofl: (if that's her name)

    (Original post by TreeFellOnMe)
    God so many things, my standards are so narrow nowadays (((((((((((((((((((((((((
    Just name a few though? We're all a bit picky

    (Original post by saraxh)
    If he talks about an ex on the first date.
    Instant dump...
 
 
 
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