Background:
Before I came to Oxford I had a rough year; really bad bullying at school, my weight ballooned, I got an eating disorder, went through two break ups from the same person, isolated myself socially and started self harming again, which I haven't done for a couple of years.
Now I am at Oxford, I do have a few friends, and academically I am surviving however emotionally I am on the cliff edge. I've tried switching contraceptives in order to combat hormones, and I am in therapy for my eating disorder, although treatment is not appearing to be very effective. I am worried sick about academics, and I knew Oxford would be a step up but it's got to the point that I'm not even sure if I like my subject or not anymore. I find clubbing and going out very difficult here, and when I'm here I am so much more conscious of my weight and how unattractive the guys here find me. As I said, I have started self harming again, but fortunately no suicidal thoughts. I know these problems may seem very petty and little in comparison to what others are going through but they are having a serious effect on me. I don't really know what my options are as I can't really afford to take a year out and start over as I would have to pay the full £9,250 again next year, possibly £9,500, and my family just can't afford that. Plus I'm worried about how future employers would view that. I can't switch to another uni this late, but I don't know if I can stick it out here, I don't know if I'll even make the grades in prelims to stay here. Are there any alternatives that I haven't thought of?
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