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    So theres this teacher in my school whos amazing. She's the hottest teacher in my school and all my friends love her, me included. Shes 25, im 16. She got married recently and most boys still have the sex fantasy but i kinda lose that because i respect her because shes married and it would be wrong to think like that. But shes my favourite, im not popular with most teachers but shes the one who actually likes me, gives me attention and cares for me. I'd say im a attractive man and we have a teacher-student relationship however i want to develop a friendship with her. I think about her a lot, im happy in her class, smile when she criticises me, smile when she compliments me but i have bad speaking skills. Im quite shy and dont know how to hold conversations well. She talks to me a lot and gives a lot of attention and opportunites to talk but i dont take them often. I want to be able to hold a good funny happy conversation with her without worrying im saying something wrong. I dont even know how to start it off, in my mind i think of ideas like offering to help her but when it happens, im blank and i say nothing. How do i change this, i just want to hold a good friendship with at least one teacher before we end the year. Help?
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    She's your teacher, not your friend
    It should remain a positive professional relationship
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    No matter how nice your teacher may be, (like the person above me said), they should not become your friend.

    It is just unorthodox and weird for them to become your friend. I don't get it why you have to hold a good friendship with a teacher. No one really does that..
 
 
 
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