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    A few weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me and I am finding it really hard to deal with. Im angry, im sad, sometimes I feel positive and sometimes I don't.

    In the end he became really distant and a bit rude in a way. He blamed me for every argument we had and said he didn't contribute or cause any argument. I was quite jealous at one point because he was seeing one of his girl mates as much as I was seeing him and this made me feel really insecure, especially as my last boyfriend tried to cheat on me with his girl best friend. I take responsibility for letting it bother me too much and causing problems but I definitely did not cause all arguments. At times i would express being annoyed about something and he would just respond by being annoyed, making comments about me being over dramatic, commenting on me being moody and argumentative.

    I am really hurt that I have been blamed for everything and feel like being who I am has caused him to fall out of love with me. I don't know how I am going to move on and find another relationship feeling like I am a failure.
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    Worse things to be a failure in tbh

    suck up buttercup
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    **** that guy.

    Mind my language.
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    Sounds like you have been unlucky father than a failure, it is his problem not yours. Forget him and block him on all forms of contact.
 
 
 
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