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    So I've been sort of seeing this girl for a while now but it was never anything too serious just a bit of fun. A few weeks ago we finally had the ''I really like you conversation'' but agreed to talk about it after Christmas when we could see each other in person again. We're going out for dinner tonight to talk about it and I want to let her know I want a relationship with her but I have no idea how to word it without sounding like a teenager. I've never really been down this route before to a relationship usually it just phases into one but this time its a little different and im totally lost.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I've been sort of seeing this girl for a while now but it was never anything too serious just a bit of fun. A few weeks ago we finally had the ''I really like you conversation'' but agreed to talk about it after Christmas when we could see each other in person again. We're going out for dinner tonight to talk about it and I want to let her know I want a relationship with her but I have no idea how to word it without sounding like a teenager. I've never really been down this route before to a relationship usually it just phases into one but this time its a little different and im totally lost.
    Just ask her how she'd feel if you two were to become exclusive. If she says she'd like it, agree, and it'll all be good.
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    No, never do that.

    If she wants you that way, she'll ask for exclusivity herself.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I've been sort of seeing this girl for a while now but it was never anything too serious just a bit of fun. A few weeks ago we finally had the ''I really like you conversation'' but agreed to talk about it after Christmas when we could see each other in person again. We're going out for dinner tonight to talk about it and I want to let her know I want a relationship with her but I have no idea how to word it without sounding like a teenager. I've never really been down this route before to a relationship usually it just phases into one but this time its a little different and im totally lost.
    Just ask her if she wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend.
 
 
 
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