Girls -- is liking anime, video games and comics a turnoff 2 u??Watch
This person is my cousin so she didn't say it to make me feel bad but rather to help me be more attractive.
We were talking about our lives and she started asking me personal things about myself. You know, If I have a gf, etc. I told her that I'm single and she said "well, yeah... you should be more interesting... only dorks like anime and comics". (I've a large comic book collection and around 100 anime DVDs on display in my room)
I told her I don't think it has to do with my interests, I'm just not good looking. She said she thought I was really cute, that her friends thought so too but all found me boring and dorky. None of them actually know me btw, they've seen me 2 times (maybe a few more times on the street) when I went for a coffee with my cousin.
Anyway, I won't get into into any more detail but I have to say I felt pretty *****y. Do girls really find guys with those sorts of interests boring or dorky? and what kind of interests aren't boring to girls? not that I'll change but at least I'll understand where I go wrong?
Hit the gym and become a true alpha.
Just be yourself. Love the things you love! Blimey, it's almost as if you can't be yourself anymore...
I have a nerdgasm every-time I find something cool on The Witcher 3. I get excited to spent almost £30 on DOTA 2 items. I have over 600 games on Steam, I attend gaming conventions, I have figurines of game characters. I may not do well with women, but they don't like less of me for being a geek.
Also, being a geek is SEXY. It means you're PASSIONATE about something and NOT AFRAID to BE YOURSELF. Plenty of chicks dig that! Hell, go to any nerd convention like Star Trek, Anime or Gaming and guess what? THERE'S WOMEN!
Tell you're cousin she's narrow minded, because she is.
However, I've often developed a crush on someone I didn't find attractive at first, simply because I got to know them better as a whole. 'Liking anime' isn't exactly the biggest factor. So yeah, there's nothing wrong with it and there are loads of girls into that stuff too
personally I love videogames but hate anime and find it cringey as ****. don't mind comics though.
It also depends what else you do in your life. Are you on a sports team? There needs to be a balance instead of being confined to your bedroom playing games and tossing off to anime all day.
Comics won't bother me. I'll probably be interested in what they're about if I saw them but it all depends on what the comic is. As for anime, it's very touch and go. It depends what the anime is and to what extent you obsess over them outside of reading them in your own quiet time. As long as none of them are hentai (tbf if I found out a guy liked hentai I would be way put off) I would still consider the guy. Depends what his personality is like.