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    (Original post by zayn008)
    Nah, go into an old people's home and go up the people who are still married and ask them when they lost their virginity and I bet you it'll be later than you think. Ask those who are divorced and I bet it'll be before 20. I honestly don't think it's something you should rush, it's a milestone in life and you should do it when you're ready not just because you feel it's overdue. Unless a miracle happens in the next 12 months I probably won't lose mine for a long time because I'll be committed to starting and building my career.
    My maternal grandfather was shagging girls in the Netherlands before he got married, my paternal grandfather managed to avoid the draft and shagged the soldier's wives while they were at war. Stop pretending sex was invented in the 1960's
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    (Original post by Matty2993)
    What's girls opinion on this? Is it normal? Also I've never had a girlfriend and haven't been kissed!
    is it for religious reasons ??? cos i think thats fine. even if it isnt its still fine
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    Gonna put that on tinder ''probably not a mass killer''

    See if the girlies fall for it
    Yeah when she asked you to shoot your load that's not what she meant.
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    (Original post by TheExtrovertGod)
    Yeah when she asked you to shoot your load that's not what she meant.
    Sheeeeeiiiiii :rofl:


    ''It was dripping down her face and chest...


    ...blood can be so messy''
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    I'm not saying peole should aspire to be chavs, but actually a normal working class guy who has friends and girlfriends is a lot less messed up than a middle class guy who is completely socially withdrawn.
    People can't help being ugly though.

    I'm a guy who has a job, plenty of platonic friends etc, and is not "socially withdrawn", but I've also never had sex. I've been rejected a lot of times. Stuff like appearance doesn't matter for platonic friendships, but does matter for sexual partners.

    I actually agree with you that it's "weird", but the fact is, there's often very little the individual can do about it. I can't magically "be less ugly". And it isn't a confidence/social withdrawal issue, as I have plenty of friends, both male and female.
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    my maternal grandfather was shagging girls in the netherlands before he got married, my paternal grandfather managed to avoid the draft and shagged the soldier's wives while they were at war. Stop pretending sex was invented in the 1960's
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    My maternal grandfather was shagging girls in the Netherlands before he got married, my paternal grandfather managed to avoid the draft and shagged the soldier's wives while they were at war. Stop pretending sex was invented in the 1960's
    That wasn't my point. My point was those who don't rush into sex tend to have better marriages.

    "31 percent who lost their virginity as teens divorced within five years, and 47 percent divorced within 10 years. On the flip side, the divorce rate for women who had waited to have sex was only 15 percent at the five year mark, and 27 percent by the time 10 years rolled around."
    http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/877529

    Although that is for women… but I think the concept fits for men.

    Edit: here's a more generic and recent research which isn't specifically about women. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...tionships.html
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    People can't help being ugly though.

    I'm a guy who has a job, plenty of platonic friends etc, and is not "socially withdrawn", but I've also never had sex. I've been rejected a lot of times. Stuff like appearance doesn't matter for platonic friendships, but does matter for sexual partners.

    I actually agree with you that it's "weird", but the fact is, there's often very little the individual can do about it. I can't magically "be less ugly". And it isn't a confidence/social withdrawal issue, as I have plenty of friends, both male and female.
    Women care less about looks than men do, just keep going and one will open her legs for you soon enough.
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    Women care less about looks than men do, just keep going and one will open her legs for you soon enough.
    You're probably right in theory (well, your approach is of course more sensible than "give up"), but if you're ugly enough, it does make a big difference.
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    (Original post by Pikachū)
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    Actually, it's a bit weird, but a couple of years after my grandmother passed, he brought back some elderly Malaysian woman he knew from the past. I think race-mixing is strongly in my genes. He was a really good husband, send my mama to private school rather than having to deal with poor people, so I was shocked at his womanising prowess.
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    OP what's your height/weight? Unless you're really short or really skinny/fat, it is most likely a social problem rather than a physical one
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    Actually, it's a bit weird, but a couple of years after my grandmother passed, he brought back some elderly Malaysian woman he knew from the past. I think race-mixing is strongly in my genes.
    ffs :rofl:

    >tfw gramps was a sexpat
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    Am I the only female who actually finds this a really attractive quality? I'm in my 20's and would actually enjoy being with a guy my age with little experience who is a virgin. I think it would be a turn on to be part of their 'first time', teach them a few things etc. I don't find it a turn off at all. In fact I don't like getting into stuff with more ''experienced'' guys, just as males don't really fancy riding the village bike, if you get my drift...
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    (Original post by uka_qwer)
    is it for religious reasons ??? cos i think thats fine. even if it isnt its still fine
    No it's not.
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    (Original post by Pikachū)
    ffs :rofl:

    >tfw gramps was a sexpat
    Shut up, it's not like that, he liked White women too.


    Sheeeeeeiiiiiiiiiiiii :ashamed:
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    Women care less about looks than men do, just keep going and one will open her legs for you soon enough.
    Getting less and less true every year. within a decade or so this won't be true anymore (in the west)
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    Shut up, it's not like that, he liked White women too.


    Sheeeeeeiiiiiiiiiiiii :ashamed:
    everyone gets a bit of yellow fever sometimes :console:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Am I the only female who actually finds this a really attractive quality? I'm in my 20's and would actually enjoy being with a guy my age with little experience who is a virgin. I think it would be a turn on to be part of their 'first time', teach them a few things etc. I don't find it a turn off at all. In fact I don't like getting into stuff with more ''experienced'' guys, just as males don't really fancy riding the village bike, if you get my drift...
    if I told you I was, would you teach me a thing or two?
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    (Original post by Pikachū)
    Getting less and less true every year. within a decade or so this won't be true anymore (in the west)
    If that is true, why do most men look, move and speak like homosexuals?
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    (Original post by sleepysnooze)
    if I told you I was, would you teach me a thing or two?
    It's creepy as hell, she has some sort of power fantasy.
 
 
 
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