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    Was a bit tired yesterday and was chatting to this assistant in supermarket, and for background I have aspergers and people often think I am flirting with them due to me being so friendly.

    I just mentioned how the weather was warmer than usual, and we started a conversation that lasted a few minutes (place was empty) then I mentioned it was warm in the shop and she mentioned she normally doesn't have heating on in her house and likes to keep warm in "other ways" and gave me this naughty smile.

    I interpreted that as the stereotype (well its truthful) that people have more sex at winter to keep warm.

    But did she mean it as well in a flirty way?
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    She probably meant she uses a hot water bottle fam.

    How naughty
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    from what you have told us OP, it sounds like a full on flirt from the checkout lady !!
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    (Original post by drbluebox)
    I just mentioned how the weather was warmer than usual, and we started a conversation that lasted a few minutes (place was empty) then I mentioned it was warm in the shop and she mentioned she normally doesn't have heating on in her house and likes to keep warm in "other ways" and gave me this naughty smile.
    I'm oblivious to flirting (because I never get flirted with :laugh:) so I'm perhaps the wrong person to be offering any insight, but I think that was at least a signal for you to ask for her number. Not necessarily sex, but I think she was at least implying she'd like to cuddle up to you.
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    No, she's paid to be nice to you lol.

    Do you have no concept of what customer service is?
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    I'm oblivious to flirting (because I never get flirted with :laugh:) so I'm perhaps the wrong person to be offering any insight, but I think that was at least a signal for you to ask for her number. Not necessarily sex, but I think she was at least implying she'd like to cuddle up to you.
    You get female attention, you just don't notice it.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    No, she's paid to be nice to you lol.

    Do you have no concept of what customer service is?
    She's not paid to make suggestive comments.

    (Original post by BigMan Ting)
    You get female attention, you just don't notice it.
    *yawn*
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    She's not paid to make suggestive comments.
    How on Earth was that suggestive?

    Things are not suggestive unless you interpret them that way.
    Plus, I work in customer service.
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    It' s a figure of speech??? Sounds comfortable enough to say that So at least being friendly then.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    How on Earth was that suggestive?

    Things are not suggestive unless you interpret them that way.
    Plus, I work in customer service.
    I'm only going by OP's description, which sounds suggestive. "Naughty smile". I can only provide advice/form an opinion based on that.

    I used to myself.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    I'm only going by OP's description, which sounds suggestive. "Naughty smile". I can only provide advice/form an opinion based on that.

    I used to myself.
    So they say.
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    It was the tone of voice and the way she make a cheeky smile and looked right at me when she said it and then she went silent for a few seconds then continued the conversation, as if she made the gap on purpose.
 
 
 
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