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    I met this girl on the weekend that I work with, we started talking and we ended up talking for 5-6 hours straight. We cuddled, and almost kissed but some of our colleagues noticed and she wasn't too keen on kissing.

    She let me rip apart the touch barrier, and didn't feel uncomfortable at all when we held hands and I was holding her thigh when we was sitting down.

    She kept mentioning how we are so alike and that she's not dated in 2 years and I talked about taking her out to the comedy club and we'd exchange drinks and have a laugh.

    I went back to her room and we lied on the bed together with me across her legs whilst we was talking. She closed her eyes, and I tried kissing her but she then got up and said "You are going to get stroppy with me now, but I am tired".
    I didn't and walked out and went to bed. I've not messaged her yet, but I am super nervous as we got on so well that I'd love to see her again, but just that luck I have is putting me off?
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    (Original post by TeenRose29)
    and the exams we didnt revise for :facepalm:
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    (Original post by ForestShadow)
    and the exams we didnt revise for :facepalm:
    Lmao 😂😂😂 rebel 🙈
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    (Original post by TeenRose29)
    Lmao 😂😂😂 rebel 🙈
    its true tho, mocks are so close its not even funny, I have so much bio to do, I can wing maths and geo but not bio lord help me :bandit:
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    (Original post by ForestShadow)
    its true tho, mocks are so close its not even funny, I have so much bio to do, I can wing maths and geo but not bio lord help me :bandit:
    Revise and don't procrastinate on TSR then 😂😂😂
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    (Original post by TeenRose29)
    Revise and don't procrastinate on TSR then 😂😂😂
    nah its too late anyways :dontknow:

    besides life is full of disappointments.
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    (Original post by ForestShadow)
    nah its too late anyways :dontknow:

    besides life is full of disappointments.
    Lmao 😂😂😂 that line seems familiar 🤔😂
    Doesn't harm to try tho 😊
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    Nothing to lose by messaging her... Just go for it, what is the worst that can happen?
    I am just struggling to think of the best thing to say? Like I have some ideas but they need fine tuning? haha!
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    (Original post by Corbynista)
    Be like "Hi, I really enjoyed the time we spent together before and I was wondering if you would be willing to spend some more time together to get to know each other" or something along those lines.
    why so formal
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    (Original post by Corbynista)
    What do you mean? What would you say?
    I would just call her to check up on what she's doing, make conversation and tell her that I had a great time the other day and I def want to see her again.
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    OP, you literally have nothing to lose. If you get along so well and communication doesn't seem to be an issue as you were talking for such a long time from the beginning, you can either find an amazing friend or a partner. I don't think she's going to reject you and even if things won't work out at least you got to meet someone new and exciting.
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    Lol you could have ****ed up but you failed. Better luck next time.
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    (Original post by Corbynista)
    Why so casual
    Better to be nonchalant, she's going to be more comfortable and willing to see him.
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    (Original post by Corbynista)
    Is that where I went wrong with you?
    Maybe. :cookie:
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    My post seems to have been deleted. But what I was going to say was. The plan we spoke about was I take her to the local comedy club, and I bring a friend and so does she. Takes away that date/edgy feeling? I don't think that's a bad idea right?
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    (Original post by EC)
    why so formal
    I'd go for

    You, me, to bed at 3
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    (Original post by Corbynista)
    Double date?
    No just something she might be more comfortable with, as we work together? I am so unsure.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I met this girl on the weekend that I work with, we started talking and we ended up talking for 5-6 hours straight. We cuddled, and almost kissed but some of our colleagues noticed and she wasn't too keen on kissing.

    She let me rip apart the touch barrier, and didn't feel uncomfortable at all when we held hands and I was holding her thigh when we was sitting down.

    She kept mentioning how we are so alike and that she's not dated in 2 years and I talked about taking her out to the comedy club and we'd exchange drinks and have a laugh.

    I went back to her room and we lied on the bed together with me across her legs whilst we was talking. She closed her eyes, and I tried kissing her but she then got up and said "You are going to get stroppy with me now, but I am tired".
    I didn't and walked out and went to bed. I've not messaged her yet, but I am super nervous as we got on so well that I'd love to see her again, but just that luck I have is putting me off?
    Stop going in the for the kiss when she's not into it
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    Sorry to dampen your day but she is pursuing her first kiss.

    One the one hand she may be more comfortable but on the other hand it may make it more awkward because other people are there and you wouldn't be able to spend the same quality time with each other.
    So you reckon just asking her straight has nothing to loose? I'd love to see her again, and that's the motive. Going to a chilled but funny place is a good idea right?
 
 
 
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