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    should i message the boy i like to start the conversation or wait for him?
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    Assuming that he gave you his number and you didn't stalk him or anything like that, then yes.
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    He may never text first.

    Of course you text first.
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    but clearly he may not care if he isn't going to text me first, but I want him to text me without me looking annoying
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    He may never text first.

    Of course you text first.
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    the only reason I have his number is because we used to talk but now we don't anymore and I want to talk to him again
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    Assuming that he gave you his number and you didn't stalk him or anything like that, then yes.
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    I've read the whole thread so my advice is: talk to him again.

    You can't appear annoying if you haven't spoken to each other in a while, it may surprise him (depending on the length) but you can just ask if this is still his number and who you are (if this has been quite some time), otherwise, just strike up a friendly, "Hey, how are you doing?" text.

    You're not asking him to date you, just wondering whether you should text him. There's no harm in sending a friendly one.
 
 
 
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