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    Me and this gril used to talk alot and then we fell out and didn't speak for ages. We started speaking again but is always goes like this. She messages me first but then I'm always the one asking the question. She never returnes the question for example I ask her what's she been up to and then she wont ask me the same thing. I always end the conversation as she never asks me anything so I get annoyed. However she allows messages me first. I don't want to message her first as I don't want to be the one asking questions but I feel like she doesn't want to message me now as I always end the 'conversation' abruptly.

    She's doesn't like me as I've gone down that road allready, kinda the reason we fell out. When we started talking again she seemed very unsure that I actually wanted to speak to her again as it's been so long....
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    Just go with the flow, just don't make it a priority to talk to her.
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    Seems like she's messaging you only to message you, not to actually check up on how you're feeling or what you're doing.
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    Maybe she doesn't have good social skills
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Me and this gril used to talk alot and then we fell out and didn't speak for ages. We started speaking again but is always goes like this. She messages me first but then I'm always the one asking the question. She never returnes the question for example I ask her what's she been up to and then she wont ask me the same thing. I always end the conversation as she never asks me anything so I get annoyed. However she allows messages me first. I don't want to message her first as I don't want to be the one asking questions but I feel like she doesn't want to message me now as I always end the 'conversation' abruptly.

    She's doesn't like me as I've gone down that road allready, kinda the reason we fell out. When we started talking again she seemed very unsure that I actually wanted to speak to her again as it's been so long....
    I think it is because your speaking to a "gril". Maybe if you spoke to a girl you'd have a better chance.

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    Don't waste your time dwelling on women like this, some are just down right indecisive and don't know what they want. Go for a woman who actively converses with you (this means she is definitely interested!) Women are emotional, men are rational.


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    Seems like she's messaging you only to message you, not to actually check up on how you're feeling or what you're doing.
    Why would someone do that?
 
 
 
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