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    I am 27 year old boy and I am good looking too (or so I am told). I am still virgin while I am sexually active and several times a day. Problem is I cannot approach girls. I go to gym read and masturabate but I think none of that can replace sex as i get very frustrated. I have never asked a girl for sex or for date , I just cannot do it. It is really frustrating and killing me.
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    Ahh so it's not because girls go for *******s like you said in another thread. It's because you're not asking them out yourself. Maybe you need to build up on your confidence and get practice in talking to people, not just girls.

    Also, a virgin and sexually active? Lol?
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Ahh so it's not because girls go for *******s like you said in another thread. It's because you're not asking them out yourself. Maybe you need to build up on your confidence and get practice in talking to people, not just girls.

    Also, a virgin and sexually active? Lol?
    hand job not counted ? haha
    i have no problem with talking in general i am sociable but when it comes to girls i have a problem. the other post is still true though. i am observing and most of the time what i see makes me disappointed
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    (Original post by DNA89)
    hand job not counted ? haha
    i have no problem with talking in general i am sociable but when it comes to girls i have a problem. the other post is still true though. i am observing and most of the time what i see makes me disappointed
    When you talk to a girl you like, do you flirt or throw hints that you like her?
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    (Original post by UWS)
    When you talk to a girl you like, do you flirt or throw hints that you like her?
    I do not talk to girls , if i do they will be cashiers or waitresses
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    (Original post by DNA89)
    I do not talk to girls , if i do they will be cashiers or waitresses
    Well there in lies the issue. I'm probably the last person to be giving advice on getting girls but come on, push yourself to talk to girls. From there it should come at least somewhat naturally. At the very least it'll be a start
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    (Original post by Michael_Fishy)
    Well there in lies the issue. I'm probably the last person to be giving advice on getting girls but come on, push yourself to talk to girls. From there it should come at least somewhat naturally. At the very least it'll be a start
    man thanks for the advice but that is exactly what I cannot do. If I like a girl I cannot talk to her. and also if they reject me I may probably kill her haha
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    (Original post by DNA89)
    I do not talk to girls , if i do they will be cashiers or waitresses
    So that's your issue.

    It's like me complaining that I have no money but I'm not applying for a job.

    You need to start talking to girls or you will be single mate. This isn't the movies, you do need to put in effort to find a partner. Why not join meet ups or something? Don't go for a relationship first but just make friends and build up your conversation technique with people.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    So that's your issue.

    It's like me complaining that I have no money but I'm not applying for a job.

    You need to start talking to girls or you will be single mate. This isn't the movies, you do need to put in effort to find a partner. Why not join meet ups or something? Don't go for a relationship first but just make friends and build up your conversation technique with people.
    Thanks man. appreciate it.
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    talking to more people will help you, once you get the confidence to talk to guy and girls, then you can start casually flirting- dont be too eager tho see what happens.

    just a little bit of confidence and put yourself out there and im sure you'll find someone :yep:
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    (Original post by DNA89)
    I am 27 year old boy and I am good looking too (or so I am told). I am still virgin while I am sexually active and several times a day. Problem is I cannot approach girls. I go to gym read and masturabate but I think none of that can replace sex as i get very frustrated. I have never asked a girl for sex or for date , I just cannot do it. It is really frustrating and killing me.
    How does that work?

    Everyone goes at their own pace OP some will lose their virginity later than others and some will never lose it.

    Such is life, make the most of it and put yourself out there fella.
 
 
 
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