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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    Ha well considering they just let me do what I want, they really don't care about my spending habits, no matter how unwise. They just keep putting incredibly large amounts of money in my account, everyday, with no questions. They spend their money stupidly as well, obviously not doing what I do though.

    I guess I'm used to having everything physically, then get upset when there's the chance or confirmation that's not going to happen emotionally, like with this guy. You're right, he does sound like my escort, but I'm fine with that. What I'm not fine with is him texting his friend crap about me; I was happy living in the bubble until I read that. I had to know though, and the opportunity to know was there.
    Can I have some money
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Can I have some money
    You'd have to be hot, male, have sex with me, etc.
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    You'd have to be hot, male, have sex with me, etc.
    I can deco do the male and sex part
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I can deco do the male and sex part
    If you can't do the hot part it's not going to happen.
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    OP can you convince your parents to adopt me?
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    Maybe try and refrain from buying anything for him including paying his bills and then see if he is still interested in you. You are worth so much more than being his free cash macine. Good luck x
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    OP can you convince your parents to adopt me?
    What do you bring to the table?
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    (Original post by princessjoanne)
    Maybe try and refrain from buying anything for him including paying his bills and then see if he is still interested in you. You are worth so much more than being his free cash macine. Good luck x
    Thanks very much x
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    OP can you convince your parents to adopt me?
    :rofl:
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    I seriously think you're an intelligent guy and you seem to acknowledge your issues so you just have to do something about them, can't just leave things like that. It's not healthy.
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    What do you bring to the table?



    I'll be the brother you've always wanted
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    I think it's very worrying that your spending money aimlessly. Mummy and Daddy won't be there forever, so what are you going to do when you're on your own two feet, and shock horror you might hit a crisis and not have as much money as you do now.

    In the nicest way possible, from reading your other posts I think you are a bit deranged to say the very least and instead of coming to TSR with your all your daddy problems (that's literally the issue every time), I believe that you should sit down and re evaluate your life, perhaps even get counselling because from what I can tell you are a very troubled young man. The stories you've put here are quite disturbing for a 16 year old to be honest, it's really not normal.
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    OMG...
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    £1200 for sex? Man, I will have sex with you for that and I'm not even gay, that's how broke I am.
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    He'd still want to have sex with me without the money, but we most probably wouldn't be doing anything else without it. I'm getting what I want, but does a pretend version of being liked as a person, plus the sex, make it worth it emotionally for me? I'm trying to answer that question. It is nice to be liked for other reasons apart from looks, sex and money, but deciding whether a fake version of those other reasons is good enough for me is difficult.
    There. You have your answer. The other guy is just interested in the sex and partially your looks. Most emotional connections are a two-way street, if he's not giving you that then you probably shouldn't give him that. That what he wants, you are willing to give, means that that part of the relationship could continue without issue if you wished it so. However, that he is using you for money should probably stop, despite that you don't mind, whether that is by your instruction that it will stop or your complete halt on the relationship is something only you can make your mind up on. As for the emotional aspect, that he doesn't really like you for you kind of says it all.
 
 
 
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