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    been going out with his girl for 3 days, we had been texting fairly regularly since, she seems more open and that in person so that may be the reason but I texted her saying "you doing anything Wednesday after college? xx" she hasn't even seen the message but it she has been active on Facebook and seen messages in a group chat we are in, I haven't had anxiety before but last night out of nowhere I experienced it, adrenaline surge that sort of thing, am I just being paranoid
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    Just message her again...

    Why allow yourself to be paranoid?
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    (Original post by Ponty Lemon)
    been going out with his girl for 3 days, we had been texting fairly regularly since, she seems more open and that in person so that may be the reason but I texted her saying "you doing anything Wednesday after college? xx" she hasn't even seen the message but it she has been active on Facebook and seen messages in a group chat we are in, I haven't had anxiety before but last night out of nowhere I experienced it, adrenaline surge that sort of thing, am I just being paranoid
    maybe she's nervous about things going too quick idk or playing hard to get / thinks she needs to make you wait etc - her friends may have told her to ignore you for a while

    depends on how old you are though tbh

    I was once talking to this guy who i soon discovered to be very clingy and he kept sending messages even though I didn't reply to his previous ones so whatever you do, don't send another one!! it just annoys the girl tbh
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    (Original post by Tea2345)
    maybe she's nervous about things going too quick idk or playing hard to get / thinks she needs to make you wait etc - her friends may have told her to ignore you for a while

    depends on how old you are though tbh

    I was once talking to this guy who i soon discovered to be very clingy and he kept sending messages even though I didn't reply to his previous ones so whatever you do, don't send another one!! it just annoys the girl tbh
    I'm 17 and she's 16 there was 2 other texts before that that she saw but no reply but that wasn't just saying that my phone has low charge if I didn't reply that's why
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    (Original post by Ponty Lemon)
    I'm 17 and she's 16 there was 2 other texts before that that she saw but no reply but that wasn't just saying that my phone has low charge if I didn't reply that's why
    ok so she's the same age as me- leave it and don't send anything else, talk to her in person like nothing has happened and judge it from that, she may have genuinely not seen

    dont stress!
 
 
 
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