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    I find this Indian/British girl on my course really attractive but I am white guy. I'd love to ask her out but I don't know if she is attracted to White guys. I know that she likes Black guys because she used to date one.
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    I wonder why this has been posted anonymously...
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    If you don't know if she is attracted to white guys, then you ask her out to find out. Simple.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    If you don't know if she is attracted to white guys, then you ask her out to find out. Simple.
    Ahh I wish it was simple like that. Mate it ain't easy asking someone out you know
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    approach one of her friends and see if you can ask through her/hint at it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ahh I wish it was simple like that. Mate it ain't easy asking someone out you know
    I'm saying that's your best way to find out if she likes you
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    You shouldn't be going about it this way, asking people on an internet forum whether or not she'd find you attractive. You have to firstly assume she finds you attractive and then you ask her out/speak to her when the time is right and you'll then get your answer.
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    You could ask her , otherwise you may never know. It's like if you don't ask the answer will always be no. So best way is ask her try and ease into the conversation, but ask her somehow and if she is then you could get to know her and ask her that because if you really like her and she really likes you but you never knew it is a shame that you never said. So it's a risk a chance to take but it's worth it.
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    Just ask her out. She'll either say yes or no
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    Look her dead in the eyes and gently sing Dus Bahane to her.

    Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

    If she smiles, give her a gift of gulab jamun and seal the deal.

    It's as easy as that in my experience.

    100% success rate some of the time.
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    (Original post by ByronicHero)
    Look her dead in the eyes and gently sing Dus Bahane to her.

    Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

    If she smiles, give her a gift of gulab jamun and seal the deal.

    It's as easy as that in my experience.

    100% success rate some of the time.
    If you're a white guy then I am impressed
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    (Original post by knightchildish)
    If you're a white guy then I am impressed
    I am, so thanks :lol:
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    (Original post by ByronicHero)
    Look her dead in the eyes and gently sing Dus Bahane to her.

    Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

    If she smiles, give her a gift of gulab jamun and seal the deal.

    It's as easy as that in my experience.

    100% success rate some of the time.

    tum hi ho is a good one to try too
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    OP isn't RobML?
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    Who dares wins- qui ose gagne in Latin. If you don't try you won't get and if you get rejected then take it on the chin and move on. The fact you tried speaks volumes about you as a person, and informs others that you are honest and lay your cards on the table rather than fanny around and waste everyone's time.
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    (Original post by ByronicHero)
    Look her dead in the eyes and gently sing Dus Bahane to her.

    Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

    If she smiles, give her a gift of gulab jamun and seal the deal.

    It's as easy as that in my experience.

    100% success rate some of the time.
    That song is a bit old :lol:
    How do you know it anyway? :rofl:
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    That song is a bit old :lol:
    How do you know it anyway? :rofl:
    I learned a chunk of it when I was maybe 14 because I liked it. I remember in my - heavily Asian - school a group of girls were dancing to it for our talent show and I got up and started dancing and singing along - much to everyone's surprise. Those were the days :moon:

    Got to have some way to impress those desi girls :bhangra:
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    (Original post by ByronicHero)
    I learned a chunk of it when I was maybe 14 because I liked it. I remember in my - heavily Asian - school a group of girls were dancing to it for our talent show and I got up and started dancing and singing along - much to everyone's surprise. Those were the days :moon:

    Got to have some way to impress those desi girls :bhangra:
    :toofunny:

    Not all desi girls would like that though. Some despise Bollywood, I find most of it cringe :lol:
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    :toofunny:

    Not all desi girls would like that though. Some despise Bollywood, I find most of it cringe :lol:
    I think it was more the novelty of seeing a big chavvy white guy who spent most of his time being excluded know such things :lol:

    I find Bollywood pretty hilarious for the most part.

    I listen to this kind of Punjabi music a fair bit though:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TKXopoYDATM

    No idea what they are saying, but it is catchy. I particularly like Dosanjh.
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      (Original post by ByronicHero)
      Look her dead in the eyes and gently sing Dus Bahane to her.

      Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

      If she smiles, give her a gift of gulab jamun and seal the deal.

      It's as easy as that in my experience.

      100% success rate some of the time.
      :toofunny:
     
     
     
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