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    Never had a one night stand before, and was extremely drunk and unsure how it happened.

    I vaguely know the boy, i got to uni and i know people do this all the time but I'm terrified to see him and for people to know i slept with him (we don't have many mutual friends so i doubt a lot of people if anyone will find out)

    He added me on Facebook the next day, but never messaged me.
    He's one of these 'cool' boys, the ones I'm always attracted to and always hurt you.

    Please help me get rid of anxiety, it's driving me to depression almost.
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    Chances are he doesn't really care much about it, it's very unlikely he's gonna tell his mates or anything as it was just a ons and even though you don't usually do that, it is pretty common behaviour especially in uni. The fact he added you and didn't message kinda shows he's cool/not really bothered by it tbh.

    The only thing is, don't catch feelings for him or try to progress it further, if you see each other again he might want to do it again and if you're up for it I'd say go ahead there's nothing wrong with it- you might become fwb's. Just don't act super clingy or weird around him and no one will know. Girls care about these things much more than guys do (for obvious reasons e.g: being labelled etc).
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    He obviously doesn't care about it. It happens to me alot but its only casual sex!! Don't worry!!
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    You're making a bigger deal out of this than anyone else will, I guarantee you that.
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    Oh no you drunkenly slept with a guy at uni.

    This never happens and if you tell anyone everyone will assume you must be a really bad person.
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    just tell him not to tell anyone then if ur embaressd about it
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    Don't worry about it. Nobody is bothered.
 
 
 
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