Okay so first, a bit of background. First thing is first- I'm gay. Now that's out of the way I can ask you guys's advice!
So I started Uni in September and have made a fantastic group of friends that we all really get on in. We are always chilling together, going to clubs together etc. etc. There is one guy in the group who I have really grown to like and over christmas he- to use his phrase- "matched someone on tinder" he "potentially might start seeing". This gutted me because i've never told him how I feel about him, and i'm thinking maybe I should before things get serious between them?
I dunno whether to ask the person in the group who speaks to him most whether or not she reckons he'd go out with me/ likes me to double check before telling him anything so I can preserve the group rapport without making it awkward between everyone by just asking him outright and getting rejected.
I should mention he is unequivocally gay too! I'm in quite the pickle! Any help/ suggestions?
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