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    I was with this guy for about 8 months, he was hot and cold throughout our whole relationship and ended up cheating on me once. I broke up with him but he asked to meet up a couple of months later and one thing lead to another and now we are back together. I know he feels bad about what he did and I forgive him but I do not trust him and I don't think our relationship would work. Need advice?
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    Have a chat with him. Sit him down and say: 'This isn't going to work out, I really can't trust you after last time'. Don't let him make it difficult for you, if he starts justifying things just stop him and leave.

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    Just be honest
    Don't get back with him
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was with this guy for about 8 months, he was hot and cold throughout our whole relationship and ended up cheating on me once. I broke up with him but he asked to meet up a couple of months later and one thing lead to another and now we are back together. I know he feels bad about what he did and I forgive him but I do not trust him and I don't think our relationship would work. Need advice?
    You need to end it, once someone has cheated, trust is completely broken and most of the time it is never back.
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    Take him on Jeremy Kyle. It's the only rational choice.
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    Take him to church and get him to confess his sins.
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    (Original post by A-LJLB)
    Just be honest
    Don't get back with him
    If yeh don't get back with him, she will OP.
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    If yeh don't get back with him, she will OP.
    You're blocked out of my life.
 
 
 
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