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    I am international student from Syria. Because of my cultural and religious background it has been difficult for me to make sexual contact with girls. Everyone around me here at Durham university seems to have good sex life but I have no girl in my life. I am not a religious person but that cultural burden has made it very difficult for me to approach girls. I really need your help and advice. I know not having a good sex life is not the worst thing that can happen to someone, especially for me where I was almost about to get killed in Syria and have lost family members , but now that I am studying here in UK I cannot close my eyes and not see the realities of life here which are very different from back home. These days my level of frustration is really hurting me and I did not find a better way than opening up here. Thanks for reading !
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    (Original post by DNA89)
    I am international student from Syria. Because of my cultural and religious background it has been difficult for me to make sexual contact with girls. Everyone around me here at Durham university seems to have good sex life but I have no girl in my life. I am not a religious person but that cultural burden has made it very difficult for me to approach girls. I really need your help and advice. I know not having a good sex life is not the worst thing that can happen to someone, especially for me where I was almost about to get killed in Syria and have lost family members , but now that I am studying here in UK I cannot close my eyes and not see the realities of life here which are very different from back home. These days my level of frustration is really hurting me and I did not find a better way than opening up here. Thanks for reading !
    I last had sex last april possibly? Just before my long term partner broke up with me.
    Sex reallg isnt the be all and end all of a relationship though

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    (Original post by DNA89)
    I am international student from Syria. Because of my cultural and religious background it has been difficult for me to make sexual contact with girls. Everyone around me here at Durham university seems to have good sex life but I have no girl in my life. I am not a religious person but that cultural burden has made it very difficult for me to approach girls. I really need your help and advice. I know not having a good sex life is not the worst thing that can happen to someone, especially for me where I was almost about to get killed in Syria and have lost family members , but now that I am studying here in UK I cannot close my eyes and not see the realities of life here which are very different from back home. These days my level of frustration is really hurting me and I did not find a better way than opening up here. Thanks for reading !
    Be friends with girls. If you haven't been able to have the normal interactions with girls that most other people here have, you're going to have to learn and be comfortable before you get intimate with anymore, or it may be an unpleasant shock to the system.

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    Too long ago 😐
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    (Original post by Moonstruck16)
    Be friends with girls. If you haven't been able to have the normal interactions with girls that most other people here have, you're going to have to learn and be comfortable before you get intimate with anymore, or it may be an unpleasant shock to the system.

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    Thank you very much. I am trying to. But meanwhile the sexual frustration is too much
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    (Original post by DNA89)
    Thank you very much. I am trying to. But meanwhile the sexual frustration is too much
    Do you have something you can do to take your mind of it?
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    Never, had several chances to have it and missed my chance doesn't help I have a high sex drive.
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    (Original post by Moonstruck16)
    Do you have something you can do to take your mind of it?
    I am a master's student, that means lots of reading, I go to gym almost daily too, but you know such things do not replace I have tried few times to be part of the community here but it seems being a foreigner it is not that easy.
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    Im 17 so it's not too surprising i've never had sex.

    The amount of time until i do though in seconds is roughly 1/0
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    You need to ask the White girls if they want any of your Arabian spice.


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    Never, had several chances to have it and missed my chance doesn't help I have a high sex drive.
    Well damn.
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
    Never, had several chances to have it and missed my chance doesn't help I have a high sex drive.
    You'll regret saying that.
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    You'll regret saying that.
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    You need to ask the White girls if they want any of your Arabian spice.




    Well damn.
    I've had quite a few offers on here for sex but I turn them down :lol:
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
    I've had quite a few offers on here for sex but I turn them down :lol:
    I used to be really bad for this, back when I believe in true love and decency.
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    I used to be really bad for this, back when I believe in true love and decency.
    When me and my boyfriend were dating, I saved myself because we had planned to marry lol, now I realise how crazy I was :facepalm:
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
    I've had quite a few offers on here for sex but I turn them down :lol:
    To be fair, I was very reasonable with my pricing. I have to make a living too Rhythmical.
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    (Original post by l'etranger)
    I used to be really bad for this, back when I believe in true love and decency.
    i still believe :cry2:
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    To be fair, I was very reasonable with my pricing. I have to make a living too Rhythmical.
    :rofl: is this why you slid in my PM's? :hmmm: it was too cheap to be honest, you should charge more and offer extra services. :mmm:
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    (Original post by Rhythmical)
    :rofl: is this why you slid in my PM's? :hmmm: it was too cheap to be honest, you should charge more and offer extra services. :mmm:
    You're right, I shouldn't pity yeh.

    Jaysus..settle down yeh swede.
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    (Original post by DNA89)
    I am international student from Syria. Because of my cultural and religious background it has been difficult for me to make sexual contact with girls. Everyone around me here at Durham university seems to have good sex life but I have no girl in my life. I am not a religious person but that cultural burden has made it very difficult for me to approach girls. I really need your help and advice. I know not having a good sex life is not the worst thing that can happen to someone, especially for me where I was almost about to get killed in Syria and have lost family members , but now that I am studying here in UK I cannot close my eyes and not see the realities of life here which are very different from back home. These days my level of frustration is really hurting me and I did not find a better way than opening up here. Thanks for reading !
    you have (ostensibly) recently arrived from a war-zone and your biggest current concern is that you haven't had sex with someone (in Britain) yet?
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    You're right, I shouldn't pity yeh.

    Jaysus..settle down yeh swede.
    I'm not a Swede they are known for their wild antics, I am an impostor. :lol:
 
 
 
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