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    Hey, how are you? I just thought I'd make a post asking for help because I'm not the most confident guy (I suffer a bit with social anxiety) so it isn't always easy for me to talk to people.

    Right, I've been working in a group with 3 girls on a project at university for the past two weeks and I've developed a crush on one of them. She's so beautiful and seems like a lovely girl! I've tried to go out of my way to help her with stuff as she's been a bit absent due to illness, and so I've been sending her work progressions etc. through Facebook Messenger which she seems to really appreciate. Whenever I message her I always try and seem interested and ask if she's getting any better etc., but the project is pretty much finished and so I have nothing really left to actually message her about. At university we're in different main groups so I'll get to barely see her, so my best chance is to try and talk to her through Messenger. How can I carry on the conversation without sounding weird as I'm not sure if she knows I fancy her? Like there'll be no need to message her anymore because the project's finished.

    Sorry if I sound like a complete nutcase, I'm just not the best at talking to people sometimes. 😂 Thanks for reading and I hope you have a great day!

    Try stalking her, girls love that ****
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    Just say you enjoyed working with her and talking to her and would maybe like to meet up outside of uni sometimes and see where that goes

    Aww that's cute! As long as you don't come across as desperate or trying too hard you should be fine. Either message her or when you see her around uni jus say hi and start off with small talk. Then you can start talking more... I dunno just try haha👍🏼
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