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    This guy started talking to me on tinder a few days ago...he seemed very keen but I didn't respond to his last message until a few days after as I had a lot going on in between. He may think I'm lying though and am not sure if he will reply. If he doesn't reply should I message him again?
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    Ah the double texting dilemma, want to show interest but don't want to be needy... Sometimes a gap in texting could be interpreted as not being interested and personally there's no harm in texting again if they haven't texted for a while. Give it a few days...

    It's really easy to forget about people on tinder when you've had it for a while and have hundreds of matches (most men are playing the numbers game and swiping right on everyone). If you don't message again he'l just forget about you and message some other match.

    But ye if you waited a couple days to reply to him he'l take it as a sign that you're not interested and won't put any effort in. Your turn to put effort in now.
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