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    I don't get it. I've been dating a girl but she doesn't seem to trust me. The reason is that I have too many female friends apparently. Its not like I have romantic feelings for them. I don't talk to any of my ex girlfriends nor girls that I used to date just because I can't stay friends with girls that I have feelings for. Its winding me up. But yeah, why do you think she doesn't trust me? What can I do to persuade her that I have no feelings for the girls that I have feelings for?
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    I don't get it. I've been dating a girl but she doesn't seem to trust me. The reason is that I have too many female friends apparently. Its not like I have romantic feelings for them. I don't talk to any of my ex girlfriends nor girls that I used to date just because I can't stay friends with girls that I have feelings for. Its winding me up. But yeah, why do you think she doesn't trust me? What can I do to persuade her that I have no feelings for the girls that I have feelings for?
    What can I do persuade her that I have no feelings for these girls that I'm friends with. That's what I meant to say.
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    She sounds paranoid. Not much you can do tbh
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    Talk to her and ask. It might mean cutting back on talking or getting to know them. If she is insecure then she will wnat to know she is important and a high priority for you. Contact social media etc might make her more nervous, its up to you noth to find a balance and if you cant then split.
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    I'm not seeing her anymore. I'm not being made out to be a cheat and a liar when I've done nothing of the sorts. She screams of insecurity and manipulation.
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    What can I do to persuade her that I have no feelings for the girls that I have feelings for?



    freudian slipped up a bit there didn't you
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    I don't talk to any of my ex girlfriends nor girls that I used to date just because I can't stay friends with girls that I have feelings for.
    If you tell her this, then she would have no reason to worry.

    If you did tell her and she was still paranoid, good on you I guess
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    If you tell her this, then she would have no reason to worry.

    If you did tell her and she was still paranoid, good on you I guess

    I've told her this. She said ''I appreciate what you said'' but now she's ignoring me.
 
 
 
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