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    I've liked this girl for quite some time, but I gave up on her because she's in a relationship with someone.

    Trouble is she always tries to get my attention, and always speaks to me. I don't ever initiate.

    Anyway, her female friend is an absolute *****. I'm not asking her to say hello to me all the time, I just want her to acknowledge I'm there. She completely ignores me, and when my ex-crush talks to me, she cuts through us.

    Her male friend does this a lot too.

    It's ****ing annoying.
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    ignore her then?
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    Ignore her then. Simples.
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    They're well-jel

    Hate to be in your position. But what can you do when people wanna be spiteful?

    Be the better person. Literally. If they don't want to share her, then does she really have good friends? Doubt her choice of mates?
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    (Original post by Qinge)
    ignore her then?
    Ignore her friends, or ignore my ex-crush?
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    Ignore her friends, or ignore my ex-crush?
    why not both.
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    (Original post by BrainyBengali)
    They're well-jel

    Hate to be in your position. But what can you do when people wanna be spiteful?

    Be the better person. Literally. If they don't want to share her, then does she really have good friends? Doubt her choice of mates?
    It's horrible.

    I still like my crush, I guess, but I'm not going to make a proper move when she's taken.

    Her male friend is embarrassing... he cuts through everything, he hugs her in front of me (you can see she's uncomfortable about it)... what. a. mess.
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    there is no point wasting time and energy on negative people
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    (Original post by Qinge)
    why not both.
    Because my crush isn't being the *****.
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    Friends talk. Her friends probably act this way because of what she says in conversations and that's just the truth. You say she looks uncomfortable when her male friend hugs her but this doesn't mean she feels uncomfortable because he's embarrassing himself - she may just feel uncomfortable about the situation she's in. I'm just saying this because what you're saying sounds pretty similar to me, a boy I know and my two friends (one female and one male). Friends can be pretty protective.

    This is just one opinion though.

    Anyway she's in a relationship now so you can't really do anything at this point in time anyway.
 
 
 
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