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How to accept the fact that I'm really ugly? watch

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    Hi. You sound like you look a lot like my boyfriend. My advice is go out and talk to girls. We aren't anymore difficult to talk to than men and we have a lot of overlap of interest. I will say that really attractive women are not likely to have the same interests as you but reasonably pretty women occur in every interest. My boyfriend was too scared to approach me because he thought I was out of his league (he has self esteem issues), yet when he made friends with me and stopped looking at me as a trophy, he found it a lot easier to make the first move. Also, as I became attracted to his really smart personality, I began to find him very attractive in an unconventional sense. So, I guess stop looking at women as trophies and realise that we are people too, then you will get attractive women who genuinely like you. Hope I didn't ramble too much (I get very frustrated over this non-issue).
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    I'd say there is a chance you are dealing with BDD. of course I can't diagnose you, but I honestly can't say I've ever really looked at someone and thought they were ugly, so I seriously doubt that you are as ugly as you say you are! if you really are.

    But if you really see yourself that way, try working on your personality, that projects out through your appearance!
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    Better start getting rich then 😂
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    If you know how you struggle with the way you look, why make comments like “I can never date a pretty girl wow let alone an ugly one”

    You don’t appreciate being tied down by something you have no control over - Don’t do the same when looking for a relationship.
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    I'd like to see a picture of you to give you my honest opinion on your looks plus I want you to know that if you're smart and capable to achieve great things in life and in short be rich, then your looks won't matter. I know some unattractive millionaires and their personality and how they pull off their confidence overthrows their looks.
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    I don't think you are ugly

    Ugly is a subjective term that has been formed by individuals who have built a criterion of what is unacceptable, and want others to accept it as an absolute truth. For one, I do not believe you are ugly if anything you are beautiful, it is your decision to build on your beauty and let it shine or to accept the opposite and lower yourself to a four-letter word, which does not defy who you are as a person.
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    Beards are sexy. Grow a beard. Groom yourself. But not too much.
    Ps, no ones acc ugly you’ve just got to find your style.
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    become rich, it helps

    people won't care that you're ugly then. and therefore you won't care either
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    First of all, you are lucky you are a man. If you are an ugly woman, you are screwed. Nobody has any sympathy for you and people are happy to make fun of you and pretend you don't exist. You can grow beards and also, a lot of girls are more lenient than men when it comes to looks. Speaking of woman, you should stop trying too hard to feel like you should impress them and concentrate on impressing yourself. Don't look at yourself too much in the mirror, focus on other goals and hobbies, don't make having a relationship a top priority, because if you do and you never get one, your life will be miserable. It's better to be alone and live a satisfying and successful life.
 
 
 
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