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I find it hard to approach people i find attractive watch

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    There are three different guys i find very cute in my class who are all fairly nice (Ones got a gf i think so i won't try anything) but because i don't talk to them nor am i friends with any of their friends i find it really tricky to speak to them without it being about class work or just chit chat.
    Its not much of a big deal but i would like to overcome this problem because if i do get a serious crush on a guy i would like to be able to talk to them and not be shy and awkward.
    I've never had a proper boyfriend or whatever or have any romantic experience and i worry that i won't get one anytime soon if i can't even talk to them.

    I don't have a very high opinion of the men who do flirt or try and ask me out as i always think they only want sex or they are only intrested in me because im dressed in a pretty way...sadly that thought is usually correct, one time a guy actually followed me home and wouldn't leave me alone untill i gave him my name despite me saying i had a bf (I lied about that but he was being really creepy)
    i dunno i just would like some advice please

    Welcome to the Human race !

    I know how you feel, there is this girl at my school I just don't have the courage to go over and talk to her, she probably thinks I am weird as I have only spoken to her through Facebook.
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