Can boys cry.

yellowtaxi

this keeps bein deleted and its a serious question so i dont no why.

is it ok for boys to cry?

Because i fell over in town the ova day an it shuck me up an a few tears were roling down ma face, mostly cos it shockd me an also cos it hurt an i smashed the plates id bought. So am i mard and soft cos of this or is it ok.

No, its not OK. You tart.

Reply 3

OP

thefish_uk

lol

How old are you?

Unless you're trying to get a reputation for being hard (in which case it's just plain funny), I think it's allowed, as long as you dont attract attention.

nearly 18

Reply 4

Mad Caddie

No, its not OK. You tart.

Hehehe

Aye, that might just be humiliating, ultimately humiliating.
How do you cope with it?

Reply 5

yellowtaxi

nearly 18

Are you emotionally secure?

Reply 6

OP

thefish_uk

lol

How old are you?

Unless you're trying to get a reputation for being hard (in which case it's just plain funny), I think it's allowed, as long as you dont attract attention.

i werent atractin attention, i didnt want no1 to see me doin it but i cudnt help it.

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randdom

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yellowtaxi

is it ok for boys to cry?

Because i fell over in town the ova day an it shuck me up an a few tears were roling down ma face, mostly cos it shockd me an also cos it hurt an i smashed the plates id bought. So am i mard and soft cos of this or is it ok.

Personally I don't think it is bad for a guy to cry I think it is sweet it shows that they actually have feelings. It seems mostly to be other guys who have a problem with it and I don't see why they do either. If you want to cry then cry it is there problem if they can't accept it.

Reply 8

randdom

Personally I don't think it is bad for a guy to cry I think it is sweet it shows that they actually have feelings. It seems mostly to be other guys who have a problem with it and I don't see why they do either. If you want to cry then cry it is there problem if they can't accept it.

why would you cry because you fall over?

Thats so lame?

Reply 9

If it's something like a funeral or any other emotional event then there's zero shame in crying.

But falling over? (and if you're the same guy I remember, then was that shoelaces?) Humiliating, your only remaining hope is suicide...

(NB: Here I'm using sarcasm...)

Reply 10

OP

Mad Caddie

why would you cry because you fall over?

Thats so lame?

i cant explain it it just shockd me an i smashed wot id bought and it was raining and wet and it just upset me. i wasnt crying loads, just a few tears.

Reply 11

yellowtaxi

i cant explain it it just shockd me an i smashed wot id bought and it was raining and wet and it just upset me. i wasnt crying loads, just a few tears.

In retrospect if it was raining I doubt it matters...

Reply 12

yellowtaxi

i cant explain it it just shockd me an i smashed wot id bought and it was raining and wet and it just upset me. i wasnt crying loads, just a few tears.

My advice is visit the nearest shrink.

Random acts of crying for a "guy" like you can't be good.

You get me?

Reply 13

Apollo

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yellowtaxi

i cant explain it it just shockd me an i smashed wot id bought and it was raining and wet and it just upset me. i wasnt crying loads, just a few tears.

Are you sure it wasnt just the rain?

Reply 14

LifeWired

In retrospect if it was raining I doubt it matters...

Pathetic Falacy

Reply 15

Mad Caddie

Pathetic Falacy

True, but a shield from public humiliation.

The personal shame is his own to bare, and let him you should :rolleyes:

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