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    Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and he's just mentioned to me he's going on holiday with his best friend who's also a girl. I've never met the girl so to me she's a complete stranger. She shows flirty behaviour from what posts I've seen and the stuff he's told me and it's made me feel upset I guess? I know deep down I don't get to choose who he's friends with but I guess it's the fact that I wanted to be the first one to take him abroad, and I'm trying not to act disappointed but inside I just feel a sinking feeling. He's stayed with her before and she regularly just walks around in her underwear. I don't feel comfortable with that idea but at the end of the day I can't stop him and I'm in love with him. I guess I just want someone to tell me if they way I'm feeling is unjust? I know he wouldn't cheat and that the girl is his only friend really, I just worry that I'm not good enough
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    Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and he's just mentioned to me he's going on holiday with his best friend who's also a girl. I've never met the girl so to me she's a complete stranger. She shows flirty behaviour from what posts I've seen and the stuff he's told me and it's made me feel upset I guess? I know deep down I don't get to choose who he's friends with but I guess it's the fact that I wanted to be the first one to take him abroad, and I'm trying not to act disappointed but inside I just feel a sinking feeling. He's stayed with her before and she regularly just walks around in her underwear. I don't feel comfortable with that idea but at the end of the day I can't stop him and I'm in love with him. I guess I just want someone to tell me if they way I'm feeling is unjust? I know he wouldn't cheat and that the girl is his only friend really, I just worry that I'm not good enough
    Well nothing wrong with him going on holiday but at the same time it is with someone who is flirty and walks around in just her underwear, I would at least confront him with your fears.
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    No you're not being jealous. If it was the other way round I'm pretty sure he would be feeling the same way. I can understand where your coming from. your his girlfriend and you should be the first girl that comes first for him. I'm telling you if that was my boyfreind and he was going on a holiday with some chick I would be pretty mad. coz let's face it we know how guys are when it comes to girls lol. it's a good thing you trust him but I wouldn't trust her coz you don't know her.

    You also said she is flirty and just walks around in her underwear. if she had respect for your relationship she wouldnt be doing that ****. but she is doing it coz she doesn't care. girl stand up for yourself and confront him! xx
 
 
 
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