So two weeks ago he comes un-invited to my house and just turns up.
Last week we agreed to meet up and he says he will give the magazines back but he lied, the bus number he had to catch went past 4 times and he lied it was not the bus number.
Again another day last week he came to my house without my consent and he came at 7pm where I just did not want to come out, he didn't even say beforehand or text, call me and there was no agreement to meeting up, however, he just turned up outside my door step just like that.
Today, can't believe it, without agreeing he comes to my house, he phones me and I say I don't want to come out and he doesn't listen, he just keep knocking and knocking on my door and on my window.
I eventually come out and he says because I'm not doing anything, I might as well chill out for an hour. We go to the chip shop where he leaves the bag in the car, I take the bag to the chippie and leave it on the window sill and I'm gone leaving him.
I'm a bit agitated.
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- Thread Starter
- 01-02-2017 21:20
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- 02-02-2017 07:02
He sounds like a stalker and very controlling. I don't think he's a friend at all, just someone who thinks he can just push you around for fun. Stop talking to him and block him.
- Thread Starter
- 02-02-2017 11:21
I agree with you 100%. He deliberately knows he's manipulating, controlling me and messing me about.
Due to all of these reasons I've decided to break up friends with him, a good friend will not lie, manipulate, control and mess you about. Furthermore, a good friend will respect your time.
Just worried he will go to the police if his bag is missing (which this his responsibility). I just left it on the chip shop windowsill where if he turns around he could see it and I ran off.
- 02-02-2017 23:27
A friend who doesnt respect you isnt your friend. simple
- 10-02-2017 20:06
Just dump them and curse at them, that's what I do with ****ed up friends who don't know the manners.
- 12-02-2017 13:59