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    The situation is, that guy I'm flirting is having a military erasmus atm also writing a thesis and since the day he started his course we haven't had the chance of texting much. Last month I sent him a message on fb (a killer one really, I realized how long it was after I had sent it :nopity:) he read it didn't respond right away and marked it as unread soon after.:dry:
    This is the first time he is leaving me unanswered like this and I'm wonderin' should I still expect for a reply or just dump the whole situation? :erm::hmmmm2:
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    The situation is, that guy I'm flirting is having a military erasmus atm also writing a thesis and since the day he started his course we haven't had the chance of texting much. Last month I sent him a message on fb (a killer one really, I realized how long it was after I had sent it :nopity:) he read it didn't respond right away and marked it as unread soon after.:dry:
    This is the first time he is leaving me unanswered like this and I'm wonderin' should I still expect for a reply or just dump the whole situation? :erm::hmmmm2:
    My advice would be to not expect a reply and resume service as normal, if you get one soon then great, if not then leave it. Though I guess for me this approach has always resulted in me leaving it :lol:
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    Well if someone sends me a wall of text there's a verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry high chance I'm not replying straight away. Because that means I have to spend time to make an equally long reply. Takes me a long time to type out big messages. Usually half an hour lol. It's like emails at that point.

    If I get sent short messages then majority of the time I reply straight away.

    So bare that in mind when you send essays to people lmao
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    Well if someone sends me a wall of text there's a verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry high chance I'm not replying straight away. Because that means I have to spend time to make an equally long reply. Takes me a long time to type out big messages. Usually half an hour lol. It's like emails at that point.

    If I get sent short messages then majority of the time I reply straight away.

    So bare that in mind when you send essays to people lmao
    Haha well,I know I know I shouldnt have written that kinda really looooong paragraph,yeah he was also so okay with short and normal daily messages so this is the first time he reacts like that..I guess I shouldnt overthink and overworry about it then :erm:
 
 
 
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